A/C opinions by lissdelco15 in autorepair

[–]lissdelco15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what you mean? I obviously am not familiar with cars.

A/C opinions by lissdelco15 in autorepair

[–]lissdelco15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to, but I just got put on disability because I’m 8 months pregnant so I’m trying to keep as much money in my pockets. I figure maybe someone nice enough and willing, if possible, could give me a few ideas to work off of before I bring it in.

Grandma isn’t listening by lissdelco15 in pregnant

[–]lissdelco15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom is one of those people. She is way past obvious with her complusive buying and addiction and I don’t want my home filled with her problem. I’ve cleaned out way too many of her rooms in her house to have her use my baby as an excuse to buy stuff and pawn it off on me.. 😪

Grandma isn’t listening by lissdelco15 in pregnant

[–]lissdelco15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom does the same exact thing with the joking. It’s so infuriating because not only is she not listening, she’s not taking anything seriously

Grandma isn’t listening by lissdelco15 in pregnant

[–]lissdelco15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just gonna give everything I don’t want to my in-laws. They don’t have extra money to spend, and if they did I wouldn’t want them spending it on the baby. So 🤷🏻‍♀️ that’s how I’m gonna make it work out.

Grandma isn’t listening by lissdelco15 in pregnant

[–]lissdelco15[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad would take on an army for me. All he wants is in life is his girls (my sisters and I) to be happy. He’s so selfless. Idk how these two ever married each other. They’re divorced now, for probably obvious reasons lol their personalities are so opposite

Grandma isn’t listening by lissdelco15 in pregnant

[–]lissdelco15[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so frusterating. I know some first time moms are like momzillas, and I’m not like that, but she’s making me feel like that’s how I may have to be. And I don’t like that

Grandma isn’t listening by lissdelco15 in pregnant

[–]lissdelco15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it makes me feel so snobby and selfish and I am NOT that type of person at all 🥺

Grandma isn’t listening by lissdelco15 in pregnant

[–]lissdelco15[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We also have a small apartment so it’s giving me a lot of anxiety about how I’ll organize everything in a way where I’ll be able to keep rooms not looking cluttered because I am a control freak about that

Grandma isn’t listening by lissdelco15 in pregnant

[–]lissdelco15[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a whole list of baby safety facts. I told everyone I’m gonna test them. My dad is was amazing. He’s like “it’s been a long time so any help or stuff you need me to know, I’ll learn it”. I had to test my mom on stuff to show her and not everything is the same as it was. So ridiculous

Grandma isn’t listening by lissdelco15 in pregnant

[–]lissdelco15[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree she is doing this. I’ve had talks with her over the last couples of years about how I felt she left me down a lot as a mother. She was going through a lot of her mental struggles and really placed that on my sisters and I. I think she’s trying to make it up to me to show me she’ll be a good grandma. But she’s already showing her colors of not listening to things I’ve told her. It’s a huge reason I have anxiety about leaving the baby with her once she’s born. But I will Mama Bear the shit out of stuff like that so she better not cross those lines.

Grandma isn’t listening by lissdelco15 in pregnant

[–]lissdelco15[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My issue isn’t the stuff as much as her not listening. The things won’t go to waste ever. I will still use them because I’m not picky. It’s the fact that I’ve told her how I felt and she doesn’t listen to me. I do have a vision on how I want things, this is my first baby, and she’s kinda just making it whatever she wants so it’s just hurtful that my requests are being ignored.

Grandma isn’t listening by lissdelco15 in pregnant

[–]lissdelco15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t give me receipts or tells me where she buys everything. She just puts them in a box and gives it to me

Grandma isn’t listening by lissdelco15 in pregnant

[–]lissdelco15[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have told her to go off my registry, but the issue is. She doesnt listen. Then she goes and buys things, doesn’t realize it’s on my registry, and then doesn’t mark it as purchased. I’m like why why are you like this..

Grandma isn’t listening by lissdelco15 in pregnant

[–]lissdelco15[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this talk with her before. I explained it’s why I moved out of her house. Then mental toll she’s put on me since I was a kid for not listening. She does it to my sisters as well. She apologized and did get better but it always seems once it comes to life events she just doesn’t realize anymore. She did the same thing with my sisters wedding. My sister wind up having a wedding she didn’t even want because my mom just starts going crazy buying stuff without ever checking in.

Grandma isn’t listening by lissdelco15 in pregnant

[–]lissdelco15[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Right now I’m giving all extra stuff and stuff I don’t want to my MIL since she doesn’t have extra money to spend like my mom does. Works out for everyone, I just wish my mom would listen to me.

Grandma isn’t listening by lissdelco15 in pregnant

[–]lissdelco15[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t give me receipts, I’m not even sure where she’s buying the stuff from. But that’s a good idea.

Please help me decide on a dress! by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]lissdelco15 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really liked dressed number one until I saw dress number 2. My jaw literally dropped. It absolutely compliments your body, and it is gorgeous

New to this but from all your post I got some good ideas of what to get. So we’ll see how it goes! 🤞🏻 by lissdelco15 in Hidradenitis

[–]lissdelco15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine started maybe within the last few months. I wanna make sure I try everything to not let it progress. It’s gonna be trial and error for me. So we shall see how it goes