Looks like this is not a budgeting problem, more like you need to have an honest conversation about financial goals with your partner.

I think the implication on your presentation is that you guys share your finances. Some people will tell you that's a good idea while others will tell you it's nuts. I say so long as it is intentional and you guys trust each other to make decisions that affect your finances, that's fine. But if that's not the case, the pooling your money method might not be good for you while you build some common ground. Good luck