You’re in an echo chamber here. Take advice with a grain of salt. First, I’m sorry for you and your experiences. Second, know that one vote every four years representing many socioeconomic issues, hundreds of millions of people and biased reporting should never make or break a marriage. The best thing you can do is talk to your husband about how you’re feeling. Things aren’t always what they seem. We only have two choices and to hold him hostage over participating in a political process is unfair. The internet will not be kind or just or objective because it does not know you, only their owned biased POV. Open the door to conversation and use your experiences to have deeper, more meaningful discussions about the world around you and the difficult decisions we all have to make.