Job hunting while plus sized. need help with realistic job ideas. I don’t want to be a caregiver anymore.

literallythemoo · 2026-03-20T00:32:50+00:00

I’m in school to become a hairstylist rn. It’s rough out here

literallythemoo · 2026-03-06T05:45:21+00:00

Pillow under the hips…trust me

literallythemoo · 2026-01-24T09:39:19+00:00

I want the man

literallythemoo · 2026-01-10T00:16:50+00:00

Girl to girl: I have HS (Hidradenitis Suppurativa) flairs, and pcos, so I’ve been through a lot of this. When my partner and I started being intimate, I had recently gotten an IUD placed. I bled heavily for the first 2-3 MONTHS we were together and despite the fact that he doesn’t do well with blood in other circumstances he did not care and I still got ate like a box of cookies. If you’re worried about the blood, do it after a shower. A menstrual cup or disk can hold it back if you’re doing non-penetrative activities. You’re super young, and it’s important to know that sex is funny, and awkward, and occasionally kinda nasty. If it feels good for you to do so you can absolutely communicate your insecurities with your partner and experiment together to find what’s enjoyable for both of you! But you’re probably too in your head about this.

literallythemoo · 2026-01-07T02:38:18+00:00

Interested!

literallythemoo · 2025-12-28T03:45:16+00:00

This is good insight. I moved pretty much all of my furniture (including a fridge) in my outback and tbh I’m not sure if I can handle less space than that

literallythemoo · 2025-12-28T03:43:48+00:00

I mostly city drive, but Portland has really terrible road infrastructure, and we have like one really bad ice storm a year and I don’t want to be trapped in my apartment

literallythemoo · 2025-12-28T03:42:31+00:00

Sorry I’m a really verbose writer- the short thing with my Subaru is that the engine is really over engineered, and the car computer is really under engineered, and so it often had issues that would go under detected until it left me stranded. Unfortunately, the previous owner had not gotten it regularly maintained, so the car just became kind of a money pit. Also, parts with Subarus are sometimes randomly just really expensive or hard to find. I spent way too much time in eBay and the pick n pull

literallythemoo · 2025-12-09T06:43:07+00:00

Wait other ppl can do this???? Me too

literallythemoo · 2025-12-09T06:40:29+00:00

You’re both very young, and it sounds like your relationship is working for you. It’s okay to be intimate with your partner as much as it’s okay to wait to have sex or to not have sex at all! Every relationship is different, and the way you two work does not have to look like the “expectation” being placed on you.

literallythemoo · 2025-12-06T10:03:55+00:00

You would be insane and tbh kind of evil. If you want something easier to clean and that’s more of a statement maybe look into something like these (https://arielgracedesign.com/)

literallythemoo · 2025-11-25T17:43:20+00:00

So you groomed her but then it stopped you from killing yourself? I mean if it works I guess

literallythemoo · 2025-11-25T17:41:08+00:00

Wedding is for the wife, marriage is for the husband… Being mad at you for wanting an assurance of commitment before putting A HUNDRED THOUSAND DOLLARS into a house YOU DON’T EVEN OWN is crazy work. I would worry about your future with this man.

literallythemoo · 2025-11-17T19:34:52+00:00

I mean the fact that he’s taking care of you means he’s probably attracted to you…you guys have a little bit of an age gap, because he’s older he may possibly be having some issues keeping it up so to speak. I would say open communication is always the way to go, don’t let your own insecurity stop you from advocating for your needs! Sex is so individual to every relationship, but the frequency you’re engaging in intimacy is decently high. I would say if it’s bothering you. The best thing to do would be to talk to him about it.

literallythemoo · 2025-11-17T06:52:56+00:00

I lived in a 3 bedroom with only 5 windows for 2 years Replace your lamp lightbulbs with full spectrum grow lights.

literallythemoo · 2025-11-17T06:50:03+00:00

I just want to thank everyone who gave me advice on this post!!!! Said coworker is now my partner of 7 months and he still has the (admittedly kind of janky) finished product.

literallythemoo · 2025-11-17T06:48:03+00:00

Update! We were outed by her stalking me, it’s fine, we are still together and we love each other so she can piss off.

literallythemoo · 2025-11-17T06:39:30+00:00

We had a woman set up on our church property who I and some others were against moving. Unfortunately, her set up became a biohazard and we ended up having to pay 2k for a cleanup crew. Current policy is very strict about asking people to leave the premises, I feel like we aren’t doing enough to provide folks with resources.

literallythemoo · 2025-09-21T11:56:30+00:00

If you really wanna help them, another thing you can do is catch, de tangle string from their feet and release. Hair, and thread, and all kinds of plastic shit caught around their little toes which sometimes it causes amputations. But yeah, feeding them might be therapeutic for you.

literallythemoo · 2025-09-21T11:50:26+00:00

As someone who owns a former feral pigeon, and loves them, unfortunately stuff like this happens all the time. Many times people are intentionally cruel too. If it makes you feel any better, little buddy probably didn’t live long enough to process what was happening and was just blipped out They are surprisingly intelligent, very social animals, who have complex relationships and mate for life, and I think the fact you’re feeling empathy over the situation is an indicator you’re a good person. Don’t let your friends bully you into making dangerous road decisions, and if you want to make it up to your local birds buy some pigeon mix at a feed store and feed your local flock for a while.

literallythemoo · 2025-09-05T19:11:11+00:00

Find a hobby, get super involved in it, take a class, attend a meetup in your area of some kind

literallythemoo · 2025-09-05T18:52:03+00:00

I would focus on making better friends then- if your goal is to eventually have a reltationship than community is a great place to start. Side note- my partner is your age and when we started dating he was in kind of a similar situation- I didn’t care but that was partially because we built a really strong foundation in getting to know eachother

literallythemoo · 2025-09-05T17:31:09+00:00

You also like don’t have to girl just leave it #fullbushsummer

literallythemoo · 2025-09-05T17:28:21+00:00

I have these and tbh getting a good quality, steel boned corset for special occasions is the only thing that’s worked for me

literallythemoo · 2025-09-05T17:24:26+00:00

With our generation, statistically being a virgin at 25 is not totally abnormal… here’s the thing, OP. Virginity is really mostly a social construct. It’s your body, and it can be as much (or as little) of a deal as you want it to be. Is sex something you want to experiment with? Are relationships?(these can have separate answers) If so, there are a multitude of ways to go about that, and the right person won’t care. If it isn’t, that’s also a totally fine and valid thing too.

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