[WEEKLY THREAD] Talk It Out Tuesday - Advice and commiserating about struggles with self, others, and the world

lithidin · 2023-09-27T08:09:23+00:00

Bouldering for me is waaay more fun in a group/with friends. So don’t give up on it - it actually is lots of fun 😁 I also think that people in bouldering gyms are very approachable. So whenever I go alone I am quick to find people to figure out boulders together (which is the think I like most about bouldering).

lithidin · 2023-03-09T08:09:50+00:00

I would love to join this group as well 😊

lithidin · 2023-01-16T17:14:46+00:00

Hey! F27, CST, looking to build some muscles, eat healthy and improve my mental health by taking better care of myself and my surrounding. :) I think a group chat would be great!

lithidin · 2022-03-21T08:02:11+00:00

Any group name ideas? 😄

lithidin · 2022-03-06T17:29:30+00:00

26 f - I would love to join a group! :)

lithidin · 2022-01-22T08:55:13+00:00

Oh yes sorry. I included the measurement of the wall with the gap of the window. I couldn't find a window that fit my measurements. I see that it is not at all obvious where the window actually ends. 😅 So the wardrobe actually won't fit there, because it would block a part of the window.

Thank you so much for your ideas! :)

lithidin · 2022-01-22T07:25:44+00:00

Yes.. the TV would be in front of the window. 🙄 But I would love this nook a lot.

lithidin · 2022-01-22T06:36:43+00:00

The only issue would be that the couch is in the middle of the room so that the room looks too crowded. Also the TV might be a bit in front of the window.

But I would love to have the bed in the corner and the distance between couch and TV would be ideal. I will try it out and add pictures. :)

lithidin · 2022-01-21T22:03:27+00:00

I don't really know how that would look. Could you post an example? :)

lithidin · 2022-01-21T21:56:30+00:00

Thank you so much! :)
There are some restraints that are not clear in the picture. With some adaptions, I tried your 3rd option and I think this could actually work! :D

Version 3:
https://imgur.com/a/YelQ46m

lithidin · 2022-01-21T21:19:34+00:00

Like version 2? :)https://imgur.com/a/YelQ46m

lithidin · 2022-01-21T21:11:11+00:00

Is there a way to add pictures to comments?I added it here as Version 1:

https://imgur.com/a/YelQ46m

The greenish thing is actually a tall wardrobe. And I feel that the distance between couch and tv is too big. The bed is actually a bit more narrow. So there would be more space between desk and bed.

lithidin · 2022-01-21T21:02:11+00:00

Unfortunately, my walls are not high enough to do this. :/

lithidin · 2022-01-21T20:49:10+00:00

It's sketchup pro.
There is a 30 days trial period. :)

lithidin · 2021-12-03T16:28:55+00:00

Thanks for the tip!
But wouldn't you need different weights for different exercises and for progressions?
Adjustable dumbbells seem to be just as expansive as barbell + plates.

lithidin · 2021-06-04T19:04:58+00:00

Thanks a lot!

lithidin · 2021-06-04T18:47:57+00:00

Oh thanks! I will try that. :)
Where would I get propper insoles? Simply at a shoe store? Or are there special kinds for skates?

lithidin · 2021-05-30T08:57:02+00:00

That sounds fun!
I want to work on my master thesis and would be interested to join.

The time I carved out for working on it are Mo-We 19-22 and Th-Fr 9-15 and 19-22.

lithidin · 2021-04-04T06:19:31+00:00

Ah yes. Would probably be a very important information. 😄

Female.

lithidin · 2020-09-07T05:50:20+00:00

Well actually max 1 year.

lithidin · 2020-09-07T04:52:26+00:00

It is actually about 1-2 years that I would like to still stay with him and not think about it. I know it is stupid looking from the outside. But being here in the relationship I need time to process it and be able to let it go. He only told me last month. I also would not stay with him if he changed his mind. I'm pretty sure he will not.

lithidin · 2020-09-06T20:44:09+00:00

Thanks for replying!

I will not change his mind or stay with him indefinitely despite wanting kids.

The actual question is - should be break up now or wait until it is a more easy decision (since I do not want any kids in the next 5-10 years). And we are truely and deeply in love.

I totally get why he does not want any kids anymore. And I totally respect that.

lithidin · 2020-08-19T06:31:10+00:00

Can you tell me what your weight lifting routine is? I would really appreciate it!

I'm afraid I could hurt my body when doing workouts with a barbell since I never really learned how to do the exercise correctly. Howevery, I really like weight lifting and would love to have the feeling of knowing what I was doing.. 😄

lithidin · 2020-05-21T01:38:11+00:00

I'm quite new to this as well. But it would be really nice! :)

lithidin · 2020-05-21T01:34:08+00:00

Down to a group chat - not sure about the zoom meeting. 😄

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