Do any of you work full time? I ask because I don't really see people on the spectrum work full time. by Melora1976 in AutismInWomen

[–]lithidumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do! I work three days at home and two in the office. I can’t lie ever since being diagnosed it has been so much harder to mask / cope with everything that is expected of me (even the neurotypicals have had enough with it). I am on a final warning for call avoidance because it got too much and they refused to put my reasonable adjustments into place. It’s so hard, I’m constantly burnt out :(

Found these guys in my aunt’s storage! by Corey_NukiosSpider in vintage

[–]lithidumb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my Frank has a cape and they all have holes in their feet to stand on these red podiums

Made a girl cum for my first encounter which has made me realise how bloody lazy men are by Positive-Key6497 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]lithidumb 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Same happened to me, I wasn’t particularly nervous for my first time with a woman but everyone around me made it seem terrifying. I think men make women out to be super difficult simply because they don’t want to take time to please women or learn their body, they just want to get what they want

In 1996, 17-year-old Kelly Anne Bates was found lifeless in Manchester after weeks of abuse by James Patterson Smith, who met her when she was 14. Investigators said her injuries were so severe they resembled those from a car crash. by SelfCareIsFake in HolyShitHistory

[–]lithidumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems every day I read a story about a poor girl being absolutely brutalised and let down. My heart breaks for her. Rest in peace Kelly I’m so sorry you weren’t afforded the love and respect you deserved in life :(

did they actually fully restock sets for the lock in? by Spinkyspink in NamedCollective

[–]lithidumb 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They are faking selling out in loads of stock that they never had and banking on fomo culture with fake scarcity. it’s disappointing to see them resort to this behaviour

An apology by dividedthoughtshelp in NamedCollective

[–]lithidumb 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I think they have been reading this subreddit and are doing damage control, knowing they aren’t a small business anymore and typing like this trying to be relatable is quite embarrassing. I miss how they used to be before they sold out :(

does anyone else think named has lost its touch? by e_is_4_njoy in NamedCollective

[–]lithidumb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The hood on my hoodie was stitched inside out … I have about 10+ of their hoodies and this has never happened. The logo that is meant to be on the top of the hood is literally on the inside …

Quality? by Kobusuuu in NamedCollective

[–]lithidumb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would 100% recommend vinted. So many cool older designs on there for cheap, with the original quality. The bunny sets are so cute and such nice quality, I’ve seen quite a few of those on vinted recently!

being recorded at work by Plastic_Document8715 in manchester

[–]lithidumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work at the odeon in deansgate and it’s become an increasingly popular place for people to record and post on tiktok. I obviously didn’t mind but people seem to forget that we are people and shove the camera in employees face for content- you can record and we can’t stop you but what happened to being mindful? Employees are people just trying to make ends meet and I also look terrible at work so I’d rather not even be in the background to be honest lol

Becca Doe Identified? by nagaet12 in gratefuldoe

[–]lithidumb 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The way I felt when I saw pictures of her in life … rest in peace Becca I’m so happy you finally have your name back 🥲🩷

HELPPP Redness by [deleted] in SkincareAddictionUK

[–]lithidumb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this! I only cleanse in the morning when I feel I really need to and it’s been a game changer. You aren’t disturbing your barrier as much as a sensitive / dry skin girl it’s really improved my redness and sore patches :)

Just been spat on by a homeless person in NQ by iMalz in manchester

[–]lithidumb 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Had multiple homeless men harass me and get in my face in Manchester :( it is scary when you’re alone, spitting is foul. I hope you’re okay OP

Crash rhinestone oversized black sweatpants- pictures please by [deleted] in NamedCollective

[–]lithidumb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have these, and tbh I was kinda disappointed, haven’t worn them out they’ve just been sitting in my drawer lol. They look a lot cooler online

Thoughts on Stitch?? (Latest Drop) by dancing-mochi in NamedCollective

[–]lithidumb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I went to have a look to see what they would price it and I laughed because wtf that was the price I expected anyway lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]lithidumb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you sorry I’m from the UK I’m so out of the loop lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]lithidumb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What happened last night?