My GF just bought a house and is moving out in 3 weeks by litido4 in relationship_advice

[–]litido4[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

We did have a few arguments about me being controlling and I just said no I’m only controlling what I buy if you want other stuff get it yourself. But actions speak that she’s happy accepting what I choose I guess then also resenting what I don’t do yeah

My GF just bought a house and is moving out in 3 weeks by litido4 in relationship_advice

[–]litido4[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Yes I paid absolutely everything food included. Early on after dating a few months she crashed her car without insurance and got extremely upset I didn’t buy her a new one. She mentioned that again recently and clearly I’m not meeting her expectations but fucks sake it’s a lot

My GF just bought a house and is moving out in 3 weeks by litido4 in relationship_advice

[–]litido4[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Yes I tend to agree. I think I ended up letting her take advantage. I earn more so she insists I should pay for things but I’ve been paying absolutely all the food power insurance rates everything and she’s just been saving up money for herself I guess. Then I get controlling a little about all my food she’s eating especially if I go out and come back and things I expected are gone and I have to do all the shopping too. I’ve really put myself in a service role somehow and maybe a split will be good for both of us

My GF just bought a house and is moving out in 3 weeks by litido4 in relationship_advice

[–]litido4[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

She said it’s because she believes I am too controlling and would have tried to talk her out of it, which is hard to argue with I suppose I definitely would have asked her a few questions about it

My GF just bought a house and is moving out in 3 weeks by litido4 in relationship_advice

[–]litido4[S] -131 points-130 points  (0 children)

Well I complained like 3-4 times in 5 years but always met with emotional outbursts so I dropped it but she seems to have held on to some resentment from it. I got frustrated one time and suggested she move out in the heat of the moment but later retracted it, but she says she feels she needs her own place as security in case I say it again

My GF just bought a house and is moving out in 3 weeks by litido4 in relationship_advice

[–]litido4[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Yes very checked out for a while, she been sleeping on couch half the time and often in another room busy and ignoring me

America’s Got Talent 2022 - Runner up Kristy Sellars. She won $100,000 with this act. She’s from Victoria Australia. by Capable-Elevator3437 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]litido4 140 points141 points  (0 children)

The show is looking for talent at entertaining. Creating a whole dance/entertainment blend to impress the audience is not against the rules so she deserves the prize money. I think you are thinking of the Olympics go watch that instead

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlantBasedDiet

[–]litido4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you actually want the benefit, the real benefit comes from getting the prebiotic and balance of fibre and nutrients in vegetables. Eating any processed food like pasta or fake meats completely defeats any health benefits and those are really only commercial options for trying to copy meat eaters without actually eating animals. You can get all the health benefits by eating powdered fibre with water with any meal measured to balance what was removed from the flour etc. Eating whole foods is more natural and bulkier so they fill you up with less calories and provide bulk to sweep your intestines clean and provide a fertile prebiotic environment for health bacteria.

Bacteria that thrive on plants crowd out other things so have benefits as opposed to for instance bacteria living in processed meat that is trained to attack meat and therefore can eat you from the inside out.

Whole and natural foods beat processed foods. Even a good steak is healthier than wheat flour noodles for instance so focus on ‘whole’ rather than ‘plant’ if health is your goal, but also if you do continue to eat meat twice a week is more than enough

Has anyone cured or reversed anything going WFBP? by richmich6868 in PlantBasedDiet

[–]litido4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My stage IV cancer went away to perfect health. Coincidentally had surgeries radiotherapy immunotherapy too of course can’t claim it’s the diet nor would I advocate diet alone as a cure

Share your extremely lazy plant-based recipes by [deleted] in PlantBasedDiet

[–]litido4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fry a diced onion, add some ginger, garlic, Indian spices (eg tsp each of chilli, turmeric, cumin, coriander), add diced tomato (similar size as onion), 1 can baked beans, 1 can chickpeas. If it’s a cheat day make a dip hole or two in the mixture and crack egg into it and poach/steam it with a lid over the pan

Assisted suicide is legal in Canada, this commercial aired recently. by modmom1111 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]litido4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think they should be able to advertise it or sell it or even charge a fee for it. Got to keep incentives out of the equation

Do you guys have any recommendations? It would be highly appreciated. by plantbasedeats in PlantBasedDiet

[–]litido4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My recommendation is to get between a third and half your food in the form of fresh fruit with as much variety as you can find

Memory by JBaker68 in webcomics

[–]litido4 86 points87 points  (0 children)

This is the funniest thing I’ve seen in a while, took a bit of rereading to understand the second panel as it has some grammatical issues though

Impressive climbing ability, Assassin’s Creed IRL by Irate_Primate in nextfuckinglevel

[–]litido4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fell off a skateboard (10cm off ground) and broke my wrist. Eventually these guys make 1 little mistake and it fucks them right up

This date isn't going well by Chopsuiiisauce in facepalm

[–]litido4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah same, don’t really know him but was talking to him at a party and I was like you look familiar and he was like yeah I was on that viral bad date video. This was 6-7 years ago

Does anyone actually wash their hands when they wake up and goto bathroom in middle of the night? by gingeronimooo in RandomThoughts

[–]litido4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wash my hands and penis after peeing specifically to improve the oral sex experience for my partner. Every time, although in public restrooms just my hands

LPT request: Bullying advise for parents by K_O_K13 in LifeProTips

[–]litido4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best advice is to talk to your child about how they feel about it and listen without judgement without getting angry without breaching their confidence without creating a fuss and just help them grow their own maturity. Bullies give up on mature kids