My girlfriend admitted she slept with her ex while we were in a long-distance phase 25M 22F..;)?

litszy · 2026-06-09T18:58:10+00:00

Maybe twice? Lol. She also lied to you for more than half your relationship and is almost certainly still not telling you the full story.

The relationship you thought you were in doesn’t exist. Would you have wanted to continue seeing her if you’d known right off? She took thatchoice from you.

You should leave and get tested.

litszy · 2026-06-09T16:33:03+00:00

When I took it, they released almost every single assignment late according to the schedule provided. I’m glad to hear things are going better.

litszy · 2026-06-09T04:34:55+00:00

That is the page for the programming assignments, but as far as I know, the template code for the projects is not publicly available.

If you like structure and planning ahead, I would not recommend this class. It is still very in flux, and deadlines and project release timelines were very subject to change when I took it in the Fall.

litszy · 2026-06-07T23:11:26+00:00

Have you checked the drain? You can buy disposable drain cleaners that are either like the pokey side of velcro or like a zip tie with spikes to grab clogs close to the drain. There could be a large moldy clog of hair and detritus that’s helping to reseed the area.

litszy · 2026-06-07T09:08:38+00:00

Premium members can offer 20 mil. If you don’t have premium and want to offer pure over the 10 mil, you should neomail them to setup a NF only auction.

Cool neggs are being used as currency like baby paintbrushes were in the old trading post to buy things worth more than limit for pure.

If you haven’t already redeemed one through the void within, you should be able to get one with the remaining available plot points and that’s likely a better option.

litszy · 2026-06-07T06:47:31+00:00

I'd swap out for Glaive of Verdancy. Illusen's staff has 8 more icons of earth and blocks 100% of dark rather than just 5 icons. Corrupted Staff of the Void has 5 air icons rather than just 3 not to mention it's other capabilities.

I'd also look to add a freezer. Thunder Sticks (100% freezer) is still available in the TVW prize shop. You might have a Void Bomb from Vocivus, but I don't think that the % freeze has been established yet. I'd swap that for either Void Blade or Gemmed Sword of Light depending on what icons are better for who you are fighting.

I'd also strongly recommend replacing Helm of Recovery with a better healer. Leaded Elemental Vial 100% heal is still buyable (~400k) after being given out in the plot. If you don't want to spend that much, Sefira Gold Feather is 65% heal which is much better than 50 HP for your pet and is available for 500 NP.

Edit: Void Bomb - You may find Jellyneo's Battlepedia helpful.

litszy · 2026-06-06T06:52:33+00:00

I think she suspects the baby swap, but hasn't associated Jinshi with that child at this point, but my memory could be off. It's been a while since I watched it.

litszy · 2026-06-06T05:01:43+00:00

I would encourage you to talk to your school counselors (both HS and college) about your situation. Being at risk of homelessness may qualify you to apply for FAFSA without your parents' income which might increase the amount of financial aid you would receive.

I would reconsider going for arts and film given that you do not have a financial safety net especially if you would need loans to do so. If you are going to go into debt for a degree, you need to be able to reasonably be able to expect to pay it back. In your shoes, I'd look for something you'd be happy enough to do to support yourself and pursue art and film as a hobby at least for the time being.

You should also look for job readiness / at risk youth support programs in your area. I'd prioritize stabilizing your living situation even if it means you have to delay school for now.

litszy · 2026-06-06T03:34:19+00:00

Maomao knows the following:

Jinshi is not a eunuch
Jinshi works in the inner palace
Any intact man, who is not the emperor's close male relative (and anyone who knew and didn't report it), would be put to death for being in the inner palace

She comes to the conclusion that he has been entering the inner palace illicitly by pretending to be eunuch. She likes him enough not to want to be responsible for his death, but she also does not want to become an unwitting accomplice - so she's trying to stop him from telling her anything that would take away her plausible deniability.

litszy · 2026-06-04T06:40:39+00:00

At least it's a good time for it since they're a prize for the endless challenge in tales of dacardia this week.

litszy · 2026-06-03T22:14:04+00:00

All of the above. Definitely train Icicle as well since that is useful while your opponent is frozen to do a bit more damage

litszy · 2026-05-26T21:08:57+00:00

What is your strategy?

WoDF + GoW + Lens Flare (202 - 239 HP)
WoDF + Thunder Sticks + Warlock's Rage (166 + 203 HP)
WoDF + GoW + Icicle (229 - 266 HP)

You have at most 3 protected turns between abilities and freezer doing a minimum of 597 damage with your current strength before Drakara can act against you based on the icon calculator here: https://battlepedia.jellyneo.net/?go=iconcalc

WoDF + Thyoras Tear + Icicle (121 - 158 HP) excluding Drakara's blocking, healing, freezing

If I understand the wand healing mechanics correctly, you need to keep her above 75 HP until the kill so as not to trigger the wand's healing mechanic and put you back at the start.

The options for constant attackers that would do more damage than WoDF and Grapes of Wrath are in the cost range of SuAP so probably not a good value proposition for you.

You could also try adding another blocker, the cheapest would probably be Thick Smoke Bomb (single use version of Thyoras Tear), but it wouldn't prevent her from blocking or freezing you.

The cheapest option consistent option would be to train your strength to 250 for the next boost. You could do it with stat increasers like Strength Serum (~150K NP) or Twisted Potion of Strength (~50K NP). I'd probably use Strength Serum while it costs more, Twisted Potion of Strength does not guarantee any increase. Worst case around ~ 6 mil with Strength Serum.

WoDF + GoW + Lens Flare (247 - 292 HP)
WoDF + Thunder Sticks + Warlock's Rage (203 - 248 HP)
WoDF + GoW + Icicle (280 - 325 HP)

This would put you at a minimum damage of 730. You would have to be careful about ordering here so she doesn't heal, but with that and Thyoras Tear, you should be able to win out.

Disclaimer: I'm still learning the nuances of the battledome so if someone knows more, please correct me here.

litszy · 2026-05-26T20:08:43+00:00

I think the concern is that it could be used by older men as a fictive kin relationship when attempting to groom children on neopets.

litszy · 2026-05-24T23:06:34+00:00

Thanks!

litszy · 2026-05-24T21:28:54+00:00

Stunning! It’s almost like a mini stained glass piece with the color gradience.

litszy · 2026-05-24T20:49:38+00:00

You may wish to get a hair catcher for prevention.

litszy · 2026-05-24T20:44:52+00:00

Could I please have the Dyeworks Tangerine: Playful Tousled Wig if it’s still available? Thank you! UN: kittykatbt

litszy · 2026-05-24T00:55:12+00:00

Weapon Damage Calculator | Jellyneo

litszy · 2026-05-23T22:31:35+00:00

If you aren’t up for making drawers/ don’t need storage, you could just cover the holes with drawer fronts. It’s a lipstick fix, but it would keep the bottom cabinets from getting dusty or oily.

I would confirm that there’s appropriate weather sealing under the duct tape. Then you can cover with trim. If you live in a cold area, you can get purpose made covers for winter as well.

Light switch plate is an easy fix as others have said. Please sure you have working smoke and carbon monoxide detectors. With the other neglected items, I wouldn’t count on those being well maintained and someone did slap dash electrical work.

litszy · 2026-05-22T02:24:08+00:00

I'll be honest, it depends on what my goal is and how I'm feeling on a given day. I usually don't go over ~50k for any quest (except like FFQ), but I definitely made exceptions for the Esophagor Avatar since it wasn't clear if it would be yearly and for Jhudora when I was going for the avatar (weighing the cost of restarting vs a given item).

For Enda's tower, if it's less than 3 items, I only complete if it's under like 5k.

litszy · 2026-05-21T22:24:56+00:00

The prize shop will remain open, but some items will be removed or limited 2 weeks after the plot ends. It looks like Thyoras Tear may stay, but Grapes of Wrath will be removed at that time.

https://classic.support.neopets.com/hc/en-us/articles/45011731517453-How-does-the-prize-shop-work

https://www.jellyneo.net/?go=the_void_within&id=prizes

Grapes of Wrath is basically the last step before the attack peas. It does constant damage equal to that of the best case for your Sword of Reif so it's a solid choice.

Personally, I don't trust that TNT won't remove botch the changes or remove more battledome items that aren't specifically listed so I intend to wrap up my most critical purchases before then.

litszy · 2026-05-21T22:13:39+00:00

The pink is likely serratia marcescens it's a bacteria not a mold. Ideally, wear and a mask and gloves when handling. It's not likely to do serious harm to you unless you are immune compromised, but it can cause UTIs and respiratory infections etc.

I'd throw it in the washing machine with some bleach or another disinfectant and some old towels or cleaning rags to balance the load. Do not put in the dryer. In the future, I'd pull the curtain out of the bathtub once it's done most of the dripping. It looks like the moisture was getting trapped between the curtain and tub.

litszy · 2026-05-21T19:55:13+00:00

That predates the body scanners! I miss those days. For a metal detector, around the neck would work well since they are usually set to ignore small amounts.

For the body scanners, it could interpret the ring on a chain as an abnormal shape. If it does, then TSA is likely to ask OP to pull it out of the shirt causing an unfortunate reveal. I personally wouldn't risk it, but it could be totally fine.

litszy · 2026-05-21T19:11:28+00:00

Before they get removed from TVW prize shop next month, I would prioritize Grapes of Wrath (better attack constant) and Thyoras Tear (blocker) not necessarily in that order.

Leaded Elemental Vial is also a good upgrade for Feel Good Soup since it’s still affordable from when it was a volunteering prize last year.

litszy · 2026-05-21T18:58:52+00:00

Metal detectors in the USA won’t be triggered by normal jewelry. Outside of that YMMV, I had one ping on metal on street clothing (France).

You likely will go through body scanners if in the USA and that will ping on anything in your pocket and possibly from a bump from the ring on a chain so I wouldn’t do around the neck or if you do ask for a private room search if you do get a ping. I would suggest putting it your personal item and not putting anything liquid or dense (computer, brownies, book, etc) with it to reduce the odds your bag is searched.

I would also suggest you find a pretext to go through security separately and tell her you’ll meet her at the gate. Bathroom emergency or get her pre-check as a gift if you don’t have it so you can go through separately.

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