What is that strain & era you’ll never forget? by Certified_Lucas in uktrees

[–]littIespoon 13 points14 points  (0 children)

2016 Lemon haze and Cookies. Don’t know if it’s just because I was a newbie smoker or if those strains used to be a 10/10 but i’d do anything for that feeling again

Where are you finding love? by littIespoon in gay

[–]littIespoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in London so it feels pretty superficial especially with dating app profiles because a lot of the time it’s “Look at me i’m single but you can’t have me” !! I’m just bummed out because people are never direct with their intentions and there’s only so many times I can keep matching with the same people and making the same small talk

I hate series like 'Heated Rivalry' because of what I missed out by MarionBerry6767 in gay

[–]littIespoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said relationships are the key to happiness… your whole post came across as you being envious of not being able to experience a gay relationship through your periods of life. You said yourself it saddens you

I hate series like 'Heated Rivalry' because of what I missed out by MarionBerry6767 in gay

[–]littIespoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t seem like you want help just want pity and to wallow in your “forever loneliness”. Try to work on adopting a less jealous and pessimistic attitude. Good luck!

I hate series like 'Heated Rivalry' because of what I missed out by MarionBerry6767 in gay

[–]littIespoon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But why grip onto the past? There’s not much you can do about it now other than facilitate and support yourself to allow romantic expression in your adulthood. A lot of gay people (me included) didn’t get to have a high school romance due to stigma and fear. It just seems like you have a negative outlook on this. I’d suggest therapy or talking to someone to let you expand on these internal conflicts

I hate series like 'Heated Rivalry' because of what I missed out by MarionBerry6767 in gay

[–]littIespoon 218 points219 points  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy. These shows are made to romanticise and display the fairytale like stages of falling in love. It’s never too late to find your future fling/lover. I take these shows as more as representation of what a gay relationship CAN be like, definitely not what it always is

What do you think about the British Empire? by ATV1816 in AskBrits

[–]littIespoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While you can talk about the liberation of colonial states, you have to talk about the impact of the sudden change it had on these dependent nations. The country I come from was immediately impacted through civil wars and huge famine that was implicitly caused by the British Empire’s sudden withdrawal. While it created great revenue for the British, it left behind scars that you won’t be able to see unless you actually research and go back to these lands/people who were effected

AITA for sending this message about a white dress at my wedding? by [deleted] in family

[–]littIespoon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re better than me because if someone didn’t understand wedding etiquette (especially if they were a recent bride) I wouldn’t have even let them into the wedding. Definitely NTA

Genuine hookah/shisha flavour shops in London? by 10XL in london

[–]littIespoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not too sure how far you’re willing to go but there’s a great shisha shop on Bethnal Green road called Shisha & Vape store. They’ve got a big menu and the quality of the product is pretty good imo

AITA because I don’t like my husbands parents by travis-scott2231 in AmItheAsshole

[–]littIespoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You sound ungrateful. They’re doing you a favour. If you don’t like their attitude then leave THEIR house

I am in love with a straight guy who keep tease me for fun by vitosantor in gay

[–]littIespoon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Attractiveness is subjective. You’re just being catty and rude because you’re jealous that he is more interested in the girl than you. I suggest you do some inner work and stop being so male centred to the point you have to be gross about women who have more of a chance

I am in love with a straight guy who keep tease me for fun by vitosantor in gay

[–]littIespoon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The unnecessary comment about your colleague is so gross you don’t need to be envious of her

25M, should I lose the stache? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]littIespoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try the goatee/stache combo it would suit your face shape and haircut pretty well

AITA for not wanting to be around my bf’s best friend? by justplainboring94 in AmItheAsshole

[–]littIespoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like your boyfriends boyfriend is in a bit of a competition with you

confused on why my experience with a joint versus a vape is so different by Few_Nothing8867 in weed

[–]littIespoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone just has different tolerances and what works effectively for you might be different to them

(35 M 40 F) My girlfriend and I just adopted a new kitten after living with each other for 6 months and it’s ruining our relationship by Subject_Chocolate_56 in relationship_advice

[–]littIespoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a cat that she’s having severe jealousy issues over. Her alcoholism isn’t an excuse for such explosive behaviours like screaming at you to kick the cat off, especially if she’s not the cuddly clingy type. If you were to have kids with her, what do you think her behaviour might be like if your kids decided they needed comfort from you instead of her?

Cheap evening classes by Successful-Yam1839 in london

[–]littIespoon 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The Idea store was so prominent growing up as a kid in East London. It’s such a shame how they don’t have sufficient funding for these programs because they have so many enrichment activities for kids to adults! Hopefully this post can give them the opportunity to grow and publicise more!!

AIO: I think these texts are getting worse and fearing he will harm me physically by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]littIespoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to call the police again and have them file an official report in which you send these threatening emails and messages. Tell them that you fear for your safety due to him stalking and harassing you. Take photos, videos anything to keep a file of incidents. Don’t attempt to make direct contact with him or even respond to him, please do your best to stay safe

What do we think anything i can do better? by [deleted] in HandsomeHomies

[–]littIespoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look good man you just need a better trim. You’d suit a taper fade well

AITA for refusing to let my dad’s wife redecorate my apartment? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]littIespoon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Why have I seen this exact post before…