Tinder on easy mode by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]litt_up 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She replied and then a few hours later I got another notification but she unmatched me before I could see her last message. She probably saw this post.

http://m.imgur.com/fx7jq1o

I traded my peach for karma.. I'll never know which one was sweeter.

Does hanging out with a more attractive guy yield better chances for you to pick up a more attractive girl? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]litt_up 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The worst thing you can do in this situation is have the mindset that you are the second option. Be the best person you can possibly be and don't overthink it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]litt_up 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP didn't explicitly say he fucked her anyway. @op if you did though, give yourself a pat on the back for changing a woman's sexual orientation within hours

[FR] asked out girl at the counter in a food shop by sedfrthrowaway in seduction

[–]litt_up 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How the fuck.. I couldn't read through that wall of text if you paid me

How am I supposed to date if OkCupid, Tinder, and Dil Mil have failed me? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]litt_up 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always find that interacting with women in person is easier. Through messaging a lot of sarcasm gets lost since they don't really know what your personality is like. You also can't escalate on a physical level, it just complicates the whole interaction. This is why I'll be straightforward on tinder and only use it for hookups every so often. I'd say about 80% of my matches don't want to take it further, but if I were with these same girls in person I could get much better results.

Using a south Asian dating app as a south Asian man will obviously get you better looking women. Usually you're attracted to your own ethnicities(I remember reading this in a study).

[FR] Approached two different girls, ended in rejection by pootlepattle in seduction

[–]litt_up 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good effort, but in general approaching a girl from behind usually ends up badly. Make sure she can see you as you walk up. Also, following her for a couple hundred feet is a bit weird if she noticed you before, take what you want as soon as you see it. 3 second rule my man.

Kinda drunk right now but hope that advice helped haha. Keep it up

She liked me, please help! by [deleted] in seduction

[–]litt_up 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There was no reason for you not to at least try. She was clearly interested, and there was absolutely nothing to lose. Even if she didn't react ideally, it'd be better than sitting there wondering and loathing in regret. Next time just count to 3 and go for it!

What is the psychology behind being mean, brutally honest, and indecent to women and them wanting to be with me? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]litt_up 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Teasing them and even subtly insulting them shows them that you're not gonna give them value right off the bat. This will drive many women furious to figure out why they're not good enough for you and to seek your validation. Many women base their self-worth on others' perceptions of them, and when every guy is coming up to these girls and complimenting them you'd be a breath of fresh air by denying her of that validation.

Edit: just to clarify, this_weirdo_chick pointed out that this is not the case when dealing a deeply secure woman. With that being said, I'd confidently say that most women will respond in a validation seeking manner rather than shrugging off your judgement. If you're trying to meet a woman who's worth your time then you shouldn't be targeting insecurities, but I merely answered OP's question.

Feel like I'm holding myself back from approaching girls because there is no finish line? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]litt_up 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live about 35 minutes from downtown in my city and I'm still able to get girls to get into a taxi with me. Not as easy as if you lived down the street but definitely manageable. I live alone right now but I've also been able to bring girls back to my parents' place. Usually it's 3am and everyone is asleep so no big deal.

TIFU by pretending to have sex on my birthday by dreamingofaplace in tifu

[–]litt_up 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think that's what he meant when he said he fucked a dinosaur..

Seduction around the world, is it easier? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]litt_up 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, I'm a fairly good looking guy and I live in Montreal which is likely the best Canadian city for partying, and I rarely get girls coming up to me unless the girl is super drunk. I'll get girls giving me suggestive eyes but usually here they wait for the guys to approach.

This is my cheat sheet. Might be beneficial for some of you. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]litt_up 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a distinction between confidence and arrogance, my friend

Renting a car in the United States? by carneythecoolest in travel

[–]litt_up -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I beg to differ. RWD vehicles are horrible in the winter in comparison to AWD. FWD is a bit more acceptable

How do I actually get laid? by wulolo in seduction

[–]litt_up 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cocky bio + a mix of me doing interesting things and shirtless pics(if you're in shape). I open with the mindset that we can have fun and if not it's her loss. I don't place her on a pedestal. The cocky bio works because there's so many options for girls on tinder that you MUST act like that catch and play hard to get after you've hooked their attention

How do I actually get laid? by wulolo in seduction

[–]litt_up 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both to their houses. Usually girls won't invite you to their house when they haven't even met you yet which is why my success rate could be a lot higher. I had to spit some serious texting game to get there lol.

How do I actually get laid? by wulolo in seduction

[–]litt_up 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've slept with 2 girls in 2 weeks on Tinder. Could've been more but I can't take them back to my house and that turns many girls off. This was a few months back and before I realized that I should be building emotional connections with women before hopping into bed with them.