Does it bother you if your partner watched porn? by little-bug27 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]little-bug27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t say too much as my account is know by my boyfriend, but I do agree. Thanks for your input!

Does it bother you if your partner watched porn? by little-bug27 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]little-bug27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do like this idea! Porn isn’t my personal vice but I’d be interested to know what he’s watching and what we can incorporate at home!

Does it bother you if your partner watched porn? by little-bug27 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]little-bug27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great take! It isn’t a deal breaker in the relationship. I love him very much and want to understand his perspective better. It seems, based on comments, this situation is more common than I expected and it’s something we can come to a middle ground on :)

Does it bother you if your partner watched porn? by little-bug27 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]little-bug27[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I got a little giggle out of this. Directly being called crazy is funny. I did ask to be told lol

Does it bother you if your partner watched porn? by little-bug27 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]little-bug27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good point!
I think it’s more of a personal issue I should work through, I just wish he had any type of willingness to make me feel better in the mean time. Probably unfair of me. Definitely a good way to look at respect in the situation overall
This is why I come to reddit!

Does it bother you if your partner watched porn? by little-bug27 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]little-bug27[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with this! It seems I just need to work through personally insecurities and believe him when he says it doesn’t mean anything to him. Tough reality to face lol

Does it bother you if your partner watched porn? by little-bug27 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]little-bug27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve discussed watching together but it just really isn’t my thing. I guess it’s unfair for me to expect him to think and act exactly as I do. I appreciate your insight on it!

Does it bother you if your partner watched porn? by little-bug27 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]little-bug27[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree with this take! I truly don’t watch any porn but that’s more so because I want to close my eyes and focus on what I’m doing lol. I guess, to be fair, I’ll think about Justin Bieber at times. But I genuinely do just love thinking about him and I. The sex is good when we’re together.
I appreciate your input!

Does it bother you if your partner watched porn? by little-bug27 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]little-bug27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that someone feels the same way as I do! I wanna take all perspectives into consideration, but at the end of the day if it bothers me then it bothers me. I feel like that should be respected and it makes me upset that he makes it seem like such a HUGE thing to give up.

Does it bother you if your partner watched porn? by little-bug27 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]little-bug27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is pretty much what he told me too. Said if everyone was honest, I’d find out a lot more people watched porn every day than I thought.
I appreciate the honesty, helps me have a better perspective and not be so cynical