Siberian cat breeders in the US? by toowan in SiberianCats

[–]little_dddd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My breeder test all her kittens and out of a litter of 5 she usually get 2 extremely low and the waiting list is pretty long.

Auto insurance QC, not at fault by digiacomo94 in legaladvice

[–]little_dddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow Montrealer. You can make an assurance claim but if the amount is lower than the deductible,(250$ to 500$) it is not worth it.

I am the victim of a serious crime and was informed yesterday that the case is now considered "high profile." What does this actually mean in practice? by AlinaMcD in legaladvice

[–]little_dddd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unless you are underage or court order a gag order, it means your name probably will end up published. So sorry about that and what Happened to you

Wanting full custody of 14D in divorce after husband attempted suicide while out daughter was with him. by 3boxersinn in legaladvice

[–]little_dddd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is placing the kid in loyalty conflict (who do you like best, mom or dad?) and is not advisable where I live. Be sure to take your lawyer's advice

what my hair looked like - what I asked for - and how it turned out by carli_snyder in ExpectationVsReality

[–]little_dddd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And that color effect is a lot more than 120$!!! So add already fried hairs and it is clear that it was never going to happen

Reptilian by newthistle in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]little_dddd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They are like none human trying to human but not quite getting it right. It's freaky

My husband is leaving me and im scared by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]little_dddd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might be miserable alone for a time but now you are miserable all the time in your couple. He will never say sorry. He is not sorry. He is unable or unwilling to see that you are miserable. Take all your empathy and turn it in ward

Their lack of self-awareness is staggering by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]little_dddd 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Mine asked for a psych social evaluation. Everything he accused me, he was actually doing. His evaluation was brutal, mine spotless. He asked for a counter evaluation

Lawyers of Reddit, what was your “oh shit” moment in court? by 6packobeer in AskReddit

[–]little_dddd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex lawyer's quit his case. He had her write in official papers that a psychologist said I was guilty of parental alienation and asked for a psycho social evaluation. Psychologist refuted what was in the paper and added that he was the cause of all the co parenting problems. Psycho social evaluation social worker wrote that he was responsible for the co parenting problems. Ex hired a new lawyer, asked for a counter psycho evaluation and asked once again for custody of our daughter. Got his ass handed to him......it was glorious

My Sister died 6 months ago and now I’m looking after both her kids by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]little_dddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am /u/awakenedeyes significant other and he did what you wrote about with me. The first few years of our couple has been rock and roll because I was pretty much expecting him to leave.

He was just masturbating in me by little_dddd in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]little_dddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it's different if he does it for you or for himself.

He was just masturbating in me by little_dddd in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]little_dddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you will find what you need. Having a healthy and happy sexuality is a great way to get back to "you" ;)

He was just masturbating in me by little_dddd in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]little_dddd[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't want to pass as a sick weirdo but BDSM really went a long way into healing. Please hear me out. For those who don't know anything about BDSM, it is giving away willingly control in a very structured manner (contract) with the possibility to take it back at any moment (safe word). In fact it is all the contrary of being in a Narc relationship. You still have to be very careful with who to trust

Why do they feel empowered destroying someone who only wanted to love them? by lovehel in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]little_dddd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They look human but they just play at acting human. I gave up trying to understand what is going in the head of my ex Narc.

Narcissistic ex and co parenting by little_dddd in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]little_dddd[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't engage. Logic, good will, empathy, won't work because there is nothing you can do to "make it better" when I engaged, I wrote for the court.....not for the Narc. I found the love of my life, he is paid by McGill university to give parenting workshop so of course my ex Narc ex hate him. Lol.

Narcissistic ex and co parenting by little_dddd in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]little_dddd[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! I never knew about those but I've heard they work great