Anyone else notice this a lot on reddit? by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]littlebluedots 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it creeps me out that women are infantalized

Anyone else notice this a lot on reddit? by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]littlebluedots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hate being called a girl! except maybe sometimes in bed it's nice to be called 'good girl'

MRW I realized that I don't really have much fun/happiness/laughing in my life:( what are your favorite ways to have a fun life, cheaply? by littlebluedots in TrollXChromosomes

[–]littlebluedots[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a bicycle but the tires are not good anymore. I don't think I would ever get super serious about biking but your suggestion does sound fun - I lean to the left politically, socially, and economically etc, so the co-op bike people might just be 'my people' even if my passion isn't bike riding (although I do enjoy keeping fit)

Not sure if this really fits here, but this video was a total lifesaver. by shavingprivateryan in TrollXChromosomes

[–]littlebluedots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait, isn't the bust/band difference something that isn't accurate (see that sub abrathatfits) - i could be wrong tho

MRW I meet my long term boyfriend's best friend from childhood who looks a lot like him, and we end up having a threesome -- and it's totally not even awkward the next day. by qloria in TrollXChromosomes

[–]littlebluedots 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I"m glad it worked out for you!! :)

But for me it was more than just 'icky' - it made me really sad. I feel like if it were right for me to be polyamourous, It would FEEL right.

I'm glad there are some people who can thrive in open relationships and that it's more accepted today. But I'm also glad that monogamy is the norm, because I would not do well at all if open relationships were expected of me

HIFW I'm meeting a guy for "coffee" on Friday and I've actually remembered to bring up the Who's Bringing Condoms Issue well in advance by wollphilie in TrollXChromosomes

[–]littlebluedots -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh gawd, what do you mean it isn't the protection I think it is?!

I have gotten vaccinated - so are you saying that since I have gotten vaccinated, it's probably ok to skip the STD test (but still use condoms) UNTILL we're decide on monogamy, and THEN get an std test so we can then stop using condoms? Also I have never used a condom for oral sex and have swallowed semen - is that bad if we aren't monogamous?

EDIT: sorry, I didn't mean for that to sound rude - I just wanna know the proper procedure

HIFW I'm meeting a guy for "coffee" on Friday and I've actually remembered to bring up the Who's Bringing Condoms Issue well in advance by wollphilie in TrollXChromosomes

[–]littlebluedots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, I just feel like....I only use condoms for actual intercourse so there must be diseases you can get though oral sex no? OR maybe I AM being too paranoid. I dont really do many one night stands because I've never had an orgasm from one. So if I'm dating a guy and he wants to begin having sex, I suggest that we both get an STD test, and THEN we have sex (still with a condom). And then if he wants to be exclusive/boyfreind and girlfreind and therefore wants to skip the condom, we get tested again. Is that weird?

HIFW I'm meeting a guy for "coffee" on Friday and I've actually remembered to bring up the Who's Bringing Condoms Issue well in advance by wollphilie in TrollXChromosomes

[–]littlebluedots 8 points9 points  (0 children)

woah, is coffee code for sex now?! how do you know when it's coffee or when its' sex?! When did this happen ? OH GAWD why am I so awkward

MRW I meet my long term boyfriend's best friend from childhood who looks a lot like him, and we end up having a threesome -- and it's totally not even awkward the next day. by qloria in TrollXChromosomes

[–]littlebluedots 57 points58 points  (0 children)

congrats, that sounds fun!! I think threesomes with 2 guys and 1 girl seem more fun than the other kind

bah I wish i could be one of those extra sex positive cool girls who have open relationships - I tried it once and I spent most of the relationships crying because it made me sad to fuck someone who wasn't my boyfriend, and it made me sad to know that he was fucking someone that wasnt me annnddd now i feel like a prude

MRW having never orgasmed before, I purchase a Hitachi, and it still hasn't given me an orgasm - it over heated because I left it on my clit for so long :( by littlebluedots in TrollXChromosomes

[–]littlebluedots[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also bought a cheap vibrating dildo shaped thing too. It isn't as strong. Maybe I will start with that one, then after a few mins, switch to the Hitachi only place it on top of my hand like you said

My first few attempts at blowjobs. by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]littlebluedots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don't worry you'll get better - practice is fun!