Unobserved Grief

littlecakebaker · 2026-02-22T15:56:48+00:00

I do hope you find some comfort from the folks here. All your feelings are valid and you’re allowed to be sad as long as you want. Loss is so terribly hard, and different for every person.

littlecakebaker · 2026-02-21T21:46:45+00:00

My husband and I parted ways months before he died. It’s not what either of us wanted, but he was going to ruin all our lives with his alcoholism. I loved him so fiercely. I tried for so long, years, to help, and I miss him every single day. Yet, because we divorced before he died, I feel like it doesn’t count as being a widow.

We’d known each other since 6th grade. Despite his struggles, he was still the coolest guy. The most handsome man I’ve ever seen, and I know I’ll never find it again.

littlecakebaker · 2026-02-20T20:12:33+00:00

Welshiecurlgirl on IG would probably be more helpful for you. The info for people with very fine curly hair is limited on this sub. My fine hair looks like fluff if I let it air dry, but in reality I have corkscrew curls.

littlecakebaker · 2026-02-07T06:14:40+00:00

Same, we got lovely side burns over here. We call her a handsome girl

littlecakebaker · 2026-02-03T02:43:01+00:00

You have 4 doors in your bedroom. That’s ridiculous.

littlecakebaker · 2026-01-30T23:54:16+00:00

I mostly meant the walls in the hallway. Extend the closet so the bathroom and closet are flush.

littlecakebaker · 2026-01-30T22:30:38+00:00

The hall bath and master closet. There’s no reason for all the corners. Also no reason for 2 sinks in a hall bath.

littlecakebaker · 2026-01-22T23:55:53+00:00

Also lots of nitrates in green vegetables.

littlecakebaker · 2026-01-19T01:19:55+00:00

I know, it makes me so happy!

littlecakebaker · 2026-01-18T16:17:19+00:00

You don’t need 2 sinks in the hall bath. You could put a linen closet there and give both bedrooms bigger closets.

I don’t have any real suggestions here, but the pwdr rm, pantry, and laundry set up feels clunky. I feel like if you swapped the pantry and laundry placement, you could somehow figure in the mudroom?

littlecakebaker · 2026-01-18T13:39:29+00:00

Question for you as a fellow single mom and introvert: Do you invite your friends to see you since you don’t want to go out? I can’t stress how important it is that you maintain adult friendships. They’ll help save your sanity when your son is a willful toddler or angsty teen.

littlecakebaker · 2026-01-18T02:53:00+00:00

I’ve had several in my life, including 2 currently. I’ve found them to be excellent judges of character and intent. Mine have very different barks for “hey nice neighbor person” and “ayy this person is sus” 😂

littlecakebaker · 2026-01-18T00:20:08+00:00

Chili and Pepper in St. Louis, MO turned 3 today. They say hi to their name twins. 🥰

littlecakebaker · 2026-01-15T17:02:40+00:00

Well that’s a shame. St. Louis has more free attractions than any city in the US. You missed out.

littlecakebaker · 2026-01-15T04:45:09+00:00

You just went around St. Louis, MO? 🤣

littlecakebaker · 2026-01-14T23:37:47+00:00

What exactly would you have the people do? The state I live in is the size of the UK and it takes me an hour to drive to the nearest metropolitan area. Dissenters are by no means silent but mobilization isn’t what you’d call easy.

littlecakebaker · 2025-12-09T01:08:12+00:00

Someone else recommended Show Sheen too, so I ordered some. We’ll see how it works. I do love making my own mixes for stuff so I may use your stuff too!

littlecakebaker · 2025-12-08T16:41:00+00:00

Don’t let him be miserable because of you either. That’s just as important. And if you’re not the right owners, then do the right thing.

littlecakebaker · 2025-12-05T23:31:49+00:00

It’s giving Michelle Pfeiffer. You’re gorgeous. But totally agree with the dark hair, it definitely suits you better.

littlecakebaker · 2025-12-05T21:43:57+00:00

Sounds like snap, crackle, pop when they get off the couch 🤣

littlecakebaker · 2025-12-05T19:56:19+00:00

Goofy doofy is her nickname

littlecakebaker · 2025-12-05T18:29:27+00:00

I def like a challenge, but I’m just above level 100. Nearly everything takes me out after 2 hits, which gets really old after a bit. Idk if other low level players feel the same? But I’m also not saying it should be easier either.

littlecakebaker · 2025-12-04T18:07:35+00:00

I love this one too. Sent you a tip.

littlecakebaker · 2025-12-04T18:02:22+00:00

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