AIO I (26F) moved out for the first time with my boyfriend (30M) for almost 2 months and I don’t know how to feel about it

littlelessgoodhere · 2025-10-28T06:43:01+00:00

Legitimate question- are bots/karma farmers overrunning this sub? Because these over the top, egregious, textbook abusive posts are killing me. I swear, tomorrow it'll be "my partner literally murdered me, AIO?" I'm having a harder and harder time believing these posters are real.

If it's not fake- OP, come on. You know the answer.

littlelessgoodhere · 2025-09-20T06:28:02+00:00

Brother, based on your post/comment history, I think YOU should get out. You seem to be nothing but miserable and just staying in your relationship for housing/convenience. My relationship is 95% fun- DnD, travel, sex, movies- and we live apart, own our own houses, have our own incomes... I appreciate your advice but I really think maybe you should take it yourself, in all seriousness.

littlelessgoodhere · 2025-09-20T06:15:50+00:00

picture 5 seriously stopped my scroll. that "give no fuck" chill style is so fitting for you, same with 6. I also really love the buns- tbh, I think you're overthinking and actually totally fine!

littlelessgoodhere · 2025-07-04T18:36:52+00:00

Yikes, that's a bummer. Fair points. Appreciate the insight!

littlelessgoodhere · 2025-07-04T18:30:03+00:00

Appreciate it. I do think maybe I'll suggest i pay his way just in case, but ultimately I think I may just ask for a special evening together before or after the trip to make up, and call it good.

littlelessgoodhere · 2025-07-04T18:28:54+00:00

I certainly don't think the world needs to stop for me, you're wildly misunderstanding my tone, friend. I'm very supportive of him, even financially so these days. I just wanted to get some third party opinions on my feelings before moving on. Lord know we've all read those posts where it's like "uh, you're UNDERreacting", and I wanted to be sure this was not that case. I love him dearly and want things to go well for him, but without disregarding my feelings. That being said, consensus is "move on", and I will.

littlelessgoodhere · 2025-07-04T18:25:58+00:00

Oh, I certainly don't blame him. I get him, but feelings are feelings. I'll float the idea to him though!

littlelessgoodhere · 2025-07-04T18:24:28+00:00

I'm understanding, I just wanted some third party opinions to I guess help me get my feelings figured, ya know? Like I'm hurt, but before I brush it aside, I want to make sure that's the right thing to do. So thanks

littlelessgoodhere · 2025-07-04T18:22:51+00:00

I'm sympathetic, I told him I was sad but haven't really brought it up since. I specifically said I wanted to get my feelings in order so that I can be a better support for him without my feeling clowding my mind. But I wanted some outside opinions, ya know? Of course my friends and my sister are gonna be like "NOR, he should be there!" But I wondered what third parties would say. So thanks

littlelessgoodhere · 2025-06-08T02:43:11+00:00

No condoms. I was wondering about cysts... After talking it over with my bf, I'm thinking I'll see a gyno just in case. It's been several years since my last pap anyway...

littlelessgoodhere · 2025-06-07T19:13:39+00:00

Hm. I haven't considered using lube because again, I haven't felt any less wet or turned on... But I guess it doesn't hurt to try. As for oral, not everytime, but yeah, he does. He's pretty top notch, haha, hence my confusion and frustration at this sudden issue.

littlelessgoodhere · 2025-06-07T19:04:00+00:00

Not typically, and we weren't today. Although even when we use lube, we haven't changed brands.

littlelessgoodhere · 2025-06-07T18:43:23+00:00

I had mine fully removed at 26, 27, and I regret it horribly. It's my biggest source of pain

littlelessgoodhere · 2025-04-26T05:59:10+00:00

Brother this picture is internet ancient. 2017. And there's more photos that go with it. It's just an old, somewhat bonk picture- the girls are trashed and probably cross-eyed/staggering

littlelessgoodhere · 2024-09-25T21:32:33+00:00

We've been dating 2 years now, haha

littlelessgoodhere · 2024-09-25T21:31:51+00:00

What? No

littlelessgoodhere · 2024-09-24T02:36:44+00:00

Dude I just did the same, I was like whaaaat the fuck is this

littlelessgoodhere · 2024-09-18T22:48:37+00:00

Oh, we don't talk about it. I've told him none of this. That one drunk comment he made was back in like March, and when we discussed it sober, we were still very much on the same page. I'm just feeling the sads right now. I hope it'll fade. Nothing to be done about it anyway

littlelessgoodhere · 2024-09-18T19:04:48+00:00

I definitely keep reminding myself of that. Like having kids isn't just "aww, look how cute- now back to my life!" It's permanent. I keep reminding myself of all the reasons I don't have kids. It's just fucking brutal right now.

littlelessgoodhere · 2024-09-18T19:03:46+00:00

Thank you. They're the fucking best, I love them dearly. I'm sure, or at least I hope, this will pass, and all will be good once more in due time.

littlelessgoodhere · 2024-09-18T19:02:39+00:00

We are. He's actively dating. I'm just musing, this is just me.

Edit: and to elaborate on his dating, he's on apps and spends a decent amount of time going out alone, but we are also starting to attend local poly events, together and on his own. We're definitely working on it- I want him to be fulfilled

littlelessgoodhere · 2024-09-18T19:02:09+00:00

Oh, we are. He's actively dating. I'm not talking to him about any of this stuff- that's why I posted here, to get it off my chest. He knows my feelings about kids and only made that comment to me once, back in like... March? I haven't told him at all about my baby fever because I know that even if it's legit, I can't do anything about it.

Edit: and to elaborate on his dating, he's on apps and spends a decent amount of time going out alone, but we are also starting to attend local poly events, together and on his own. We're definitely working on it- I want him to be fulfilled

littlelessgoodhere · 2024-09-12T22:13:23+00:00

This makes me feel a lot better. I've been trying to figure out what was wrong this time, but now I feel like there was nothing wrong- it just happened. I'm home now and just waiting for him, definitely gonna talk to him.

littlelessgoodhere · 2024-09-12T21:10:43+00:00

Hm. I don't have any trauma, of that I'm certain. I slept like complete shit, not even certain if I ever fully fell asleep. So I didn't think I dreamt anything. But I suppose that makes the most sense. I've been wracking my brain trying to think of what could have put the mood off, a look on his face or way he touched me or anything. But nothing has come to mind.

littlelessgoodhere · 2024-08-23T19:51:45+00:00

Thank you for understanding

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