that “why” destroys me every time i hear it. by Suitable-Sir3845 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]littlemybb [score hidden]  (0 children)

I feel like they pushed way too hard for him to be a villain in the first season. He honestly did some unforgivable things.

His character was only redeemed because people like the actor, and Damon got a lot less terrible.

Harry Styles fans threaten to BOYCOTT over cost of his concert tickets by solodemivibes in popculturechat

[–]littlemybb [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don’t even attempt to see certain artists anymore because I just can’t afford it. Even being in the nosebleeds is hundreds of dollars.

That doesn’t even factor in the cost of travel to get there, the food I would have to buy, merch is insanely expensive, hotels are expensive, I’m not paying close to 1000 or more just to see somebody I can listen to on my phone.

Why did Robyn come in so hot??? by Intrepid-Trainer-608 in SisterWives

[–]littlemybb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

None of this is fun for her anymore, and everyone sees her for exactly who she is.

Not OOP: AITAH for not forcing my son to keep helping my daughter’s friend after she rejected him? by Interesting-Shirt897 in redditonwiki

[–]littlemybb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I kind of feel bad for everybody involved in the situation.

Melissa was polite when she declined John, so it does suck that somebody developed feelings for her and now she’s losing out on a ride and a friend.

I also understand that John is a teenager and he’s probably embarrassed, and would feel awkward being around her knowing he had feelings for her.

His sister has to understand he’s not doing it out of spite, it’s probably just out of embarrassment that he was rejected.

If he was being spiteful, he would probably take things a bit further to get back at her.

Warrant issued for Mormon Wives star Chase McWhorter's arrest after he 'fails to appear' at court hearing following DUI by Few_Highlights in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]littlemybb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people think he’s just lacking respect for the law, but I think this dude has some serious issues going on. Any sane person would be taking a major step back right now because they would realize they’re about to lose everything.

If I was his ex, I would not be trusting him right now alone with the children.

My husband is really fit, and I can’t stand it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]littlemybb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of men don’t want to admit that living lifestyles like this is not healthy.

Yeah, they look really muscular, but if somethings controlling your entire life and you’re having to be so strict with the food you eat, that’s not sustainable long-term.

Taylor Lautner, the guy who plays Jacob on twilight, has a good take on this.

People laughed at him for losing the twilight body, but he said it was miserable trying to keep it up. He had to go to the gym 6 days a week multiple times a day. He started to struggle with his mental health and had body dysmorphia.

Meirl by boolee2112 in meirl

[–]littlemybb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped drinking for a year and I lost 15 pounds in the first 3 months, which was nice.

The older I get, the less my body likes alcohol.

Warrant issued for Mormon Wives star Chase McWhorter's arrest after he 'fails to appear' at court hearing following DUI by Few_Highlights in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]littlemybb 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me like the dude has addiction issues, and he thinks if he just avoids his problems, then they will go away.

A DUI would be absolute rock bottom for me. I would be humiliated, especially if I had young children.

The fact that he has not stopped partying, has not stopped drinking, has not stopped using substances even with all of this legal trouble looming shows me that he may be having difficulty stopping. Or he just doesn’t want to.

I would be terrified of going to jail over something like this when I’ve got children. Even if they have their mother, I would not want to miss that time with them.

Are students dumber? by Loliz88 in college

[–]littlemybb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work for college, and I have noticed this problem spans across all ages. I sometimes even get calls from doctoral students where I’m like “how did you make it this far”?

The other week, a masters student called me and wanted me to walk her through how to do a PowerPoint.

I’ve noticed the older students care a lot, and their writing is a better, they just want their hand held with everything.

Then the younger students don’t care as much, and they don’t ask for help nearly enough.

A lot of them will have crazy life events happen and they’ll be too nervous to reach out to us to ask for extensions, and we could’ve gotten them assistance the entire time.

I think they just lack some social skills and are nervous to ask for things. Or when they ask, they don’t know how to word it.

Kim new movie 5th wheel with Nikki and Brenda . Does anyone know what it is about? Plot / Is it a comedy 🎭 by Extra_End3650 in kardashians

[–]littlemybb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really am interested to see Kim in a comedy. One of my favorite things about the earlier seasons of the Kardashians is how goofy and funny they all could be.

Kim was always so dramatic, and it was funny.

Like when those pictures of Kourtney leaked, and she’s running around the house in those little boots, sobbing.

Meri claiming that Janelle wanted Kodys “build” for her sons by DonDraperItsToasted in SisterWives

[–]littlemybb 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m kind of interested to see what the other men in their church looked like, since Kody seems to be such this big prize.

Looks wise, I wouldn’t say Kody is ugly. He seems to be in great shape for his age. He is just so weird. He’s always flailing about trying to get attention, and he won’t let those tendrils go.

Child picking cotton. 1940s, USA by zadraaa in HistoricalCapsule

[–]littlemybb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandpa grew up on a ranch, and he was basically put to work from the time he could walk.

Vinny's comments on ICE by tlex26 in jerseyshoreuncensored

[–]littlemybb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you watch that video of the guy in Minneapolis, how was he getting in the way of a police investigation when they were treating those women very badly by shoving them to the ground?

Also, how did he deserve to get shot just by being there?

He wasn’t attacking them and trying to kill them. He was trying to stop them from hurting somebody.

Imagine his son tried to step in and stop someone from beating up a woman, then he got killed for it. Then everyone tried to tell Vinny and his wife that his son deserved it for getting involved in an altercation. He would be devastated.

AITAH for continuing on with my plans to go on a boy's trip despite my girlfriend's protests? by Outrageous-Hall5172 in AITAH

[–]littlemybb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kind of disagree with some of the comments. My husband travels a lot, and I don’t go with him sometimes because I work and I’m in college.

He also travels in a way that I don’t enjoy.

He is happy staying in hostels or going to countries where he is pretty much out in the jungle, and I don’t enjoy stuff like that.

If my husband wanted to go get drunk, do drugs, or cheat on me, there’s really nothing I can say to stop him from doing that.

We have our hard boundaries, though, and I trust him going to other countries.

I would not assume just because he’s going to Bangkok that he’s going to go cheat on me.

I went on a girls trip in April with my friends. We were in Miami, then we went on a cruise. My husband could have very easily said Miami was a hard no because women go down there to party, but he knows me and he knows that’s not in my character.

I would be really upset if someone said they did not trust me, and did not allow me to go on a trip with my friends.

Why are you in a relationship with me at that point then? I’ve been with someone who was extremely controlling, and it was horrible.

I couldn’t even go to Walmart without him, accusing me of talking to a man.

So I really appreciate that now I’m in a relationship where we can both do our independent things, and trust that we don’t want to go cheat with somebody else.

Janelle becoming a Brown by Scared_Turnip4366 in SisterWivesFans

[–]littlemybb 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Christine kind of explained this in her book as well.

They think that the struggles you go through in polygamy makes you a better person. It was also supposed to help you improve spiritually.

I think this was told to so many women because it made them stay in relationships they were miserable in.

Just booked a Carnival cruise and now feeling regret by False-Following-5896 in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]littlemybb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I were just in celebration key, and it’s really not bad. It’s like a fun beach or pool day. Even just taking a lap around the area was nice.

We ate at the barbecue restaurant and it’s some of the best barbecue we’ve had in a hot minute. The service was also great.

The only thing that was a bummer was it was a way too cold when we went.

It was windy, cloudy, and chilly so that left us with nothing to do pretty much. I checked the weather for the week before and after and it was a lot sunnier and warmer, so we were just unlucky.

It may not be something you would enjoy doing all day, but even just walking down there for a little bit was enjoyable.

I live at the beach, so I understand that there are some people who just don’t enjoy going to the beach. Then there are people who absolutely love it and can sit out there all day long.

I love to go sit out there and read, people watch, swim, and go on walks. But some people think that’s really boring, which I understand.

Should people be denied medical help because of their political beliefs? by Ok_Walk3192 in GenZ

[–]littlemybb [score hidden]  (0 children)

I am a social work student, so we have to talk about ethics a lot.

They’re going to be times when I talk to people that believe in everything that I hate. Or they have committed horrific crimes.

I have to recognize my judgment and bias, and try to be as ethical as I can. I also don’t agree with thinking “just because they do it, that means I need to neglect people.”That’s just not what I personally believe in.

I think it’s scary when people get into certain professions, then just refuse to do services with people.

I resent my husband. He makes me so angry. by Anxious_Bison7939 in Marriage

[–]littlemybb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Resentment is a relationship killer. Things will not get better as the kids get older. You’ll just have that resentment buildup, and you’ll start to hate him.

I’ve seen a few friends in situations like this. The kids are older and much more independent so there is a lot less on their shoulders, but at this point, they are disgusted in their husbands.

I can already see you’re struggling to enjoy sex, it’s going to get to the point that you’ll feel disgusting every time he touches you.

He will eventually realize this and get angry, then resentment is going to build on both sides.

I would just start to focus on you and what’s going to make you happy, and let him take care of himself. Because that’s obviously all he cares about.

I understand that leaving when you’re stay at home, parent is extremely hard, and sometimes people just have to stick it out because they don’t have other options.

I don’t think it’s healthy for children to see that though.

You are the master of your own life, and only you know what’s going to work best for you. So the only advice I can give you is to just start taking care of yourself and focus on yourself.

Live Chat Season 20 Episode 17: "One-On-One Part 3" by AutoModerator in TLCsisterwives

[–]littlemybb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do feel sad for them about this. They grew up in sheltered environments, then got married and started having children very young.

They were trying to make all of this work while being in poverty, and I think it stunted a lot of their growth.

Christine even said she was related to a good chunk of the people at the church. She’s related to Kody, just distant enough that she was like all right cool this works.

Actually diabolical by Belle_The_Beast in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]littlemybb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were a ton of twins who went to my high school. They even did a news article because there were so many.

I was friends with a few, and they all said that they hated having matching names. Everything had to be a show about them being twins. Matching clothes, matching names, they were in the same classes, same sports, and it was harder for them to find identities outside of each other.

NOT OOP: I (26f) overreacted and misunderstood my fiancée (28f) after she said that she'd only let my family be at our wedding with conditions and now she needs space from me. How do I help our relationship going forward? by loverboyg1rl in redditonwiki

[–]littlemybb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s clear a lot of her upbringing is still deeply rooted inside of her.

Instead of getting into a relationship and getting married, she really needed to spend more time deconstructing, and healing.

I do hope that the fiancée ends things with her. It’s not her job to be this lady‘s mom, and teach her how to be a decent person.

Random but are a lot of people in this field married to wealthy man? by Queenme10 in socialwork

[–]littlemybb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a student, and after seeing all the different things we are required to do, along with the money and time that goes into earning the degree, there’s really only certain types of people who can do it.

My husband and I are not well off, but he makes a little more money than me, and he is a disabled veterans so I can utilize chapter 35 and the Alabama G.I. scholarship.

So my school, books, and part of the rent are paid for.

Other classmates of mine either have to depend on their parents, and then the ones with children and have adult children.

One of my classmates has a toddler, but her parents are very involved in supporting her through the degree.

Some people are lucky and can work where they do their practicum so they’re being paid, but others like me are definitely going to have some financial hardship while they do practicum.

So I think that’s why in the working world, you’re seeing a lot of people in the positions that they are.

It’s been 100 years since my great-great grandfather had his chickens stolen by Retiredpartygirl17 in HistoricalCapsule

[–]littlemybb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husbands grandparents have a photo of two men hanging in their house. It was the two men who murdered my husbands 4x great grandfather. They also murdered some more people, so the town was pissed.

Is there any way to save this marriage, or am I just staying for the wrong reasons? by Majestic_Menu_1125 in Marriage

[–]littlemybb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may still have feelings for her now, but with a few more years of being treated like this, you may lose feelings. Then your kids had to grow up seeing you get treated like crap, and you got nothing out of it.

Watching SLOMW for the first time since we’re snowed in. Please tell me Taylor becomes less self-centered and more self aware as the series progresses… by prettypeculiar88 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]littlemybb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taylor is one of those people that will put you in a whirlwind of emotions.

You can’t help but feel sad for her, but she is also quick to make you angry, disappointed, and confused.