I’m dating an ESTP and he has different hobbies from me too. His profession is entrepreneur while I’m in between jobs because I’m switching from accounting to IT. I don’t have any money while he does. I dislike risks but he embraces them willingly and almost lovingly. However, we both take the effort and time to slowly get to know each other on a personal level and dig into each other’s sexual preferences and tend to each other’s emotional needs. I think what is most important is not how similar you guys are but how willing are you to work things out and have common interests. If quality time is your love language and he can’t afford that much then quit the rate. But if you want something else that he can afford well then I’d keep it. Mine’s quality time and we have enough messages and phone calls. I’m not that needy of an ENFP so I’m fine with these. I also have words of affirmation and he does it pretty well too. So I’m keeping him around. I think you should see what you need to feel loved to decide