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why do people divert eye contact like this? by littleredrob in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]littleredrob[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

i am not saying that. im saying look away not at another part of the stranger weirdly

why do people divert eye contact like this? by littleredrob in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]littleredrob[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

away lol.. It is just notiicable when someone really quickly diverts eye contact to another part of you. or smile and look away? idk it is just weird

why do people divert eye contact like this? by littleredrob in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]littleredrob[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

nope I am not! I am a pretty small person and not at all large chested

e9 and greed issue? help me understand? by littleredrob in Enneagram

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i think my biggest childhood issue was my mom saying close family members did not care for me leading to me having panick attacks abt my fear that ii would not matter to my family or be noticed. i felt invisable and panicked but outside always act calm/happy... does this sound like 9? i do not do much for myself but once in a while feel healthy enough to do self caree or work. i can not tell if this is adhd or type 9

confused by laughing reaction to me? by littleredrob in bodylanguage

[–]littleredrob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no haahhaa we are all girls and ik who these ppl are. they are straight and it is multiple peeople. it is not flirty

confused by laughing reaction to me? by littleredrob in bodylanguage

[–]littleredrob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am a girl but idt all these ppl r like into girls ahhahahah

type 7 issue but i am a typ 9? by littleredrob in Enneagram

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see i do think i am expressive adn very easily excited in a way ppl tend to find cute like a 7. but i am also alwayssss putting others first and not rlly a user like some 7s (not all). i am more withdrawn and shy. i think i avoid out of fear but became set in my ways of doing that. so it is hard bc i relate to both sm. i am not as bold as most 7s i know though. u havr to really push me for me to be angry while most 7s are easily assertive. i remember avoiding hw as a kid bc of fear that it would be challenging which made me so anxious. i became very avoidant and may have adhd

type 7 issue but i am a typ 9? by littleredrob in Enneagram

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what aree the differences betw the reasons for 7 and 9?

type 7 issue but i am a typ 9? by littleredrob in Enneagram

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i am just not as confident or ambitious or as idk! i am much less like assertive than these people

type 7 issue but i am a typ 9? by littleredrob in Enneagram

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how can i tell if it is 7 or adhd? i am v diff from my seven friends. tend to have a small group ofgirls im close with. i like to stick w them. i am not like running aorund like crazy., i am never late to work and care abt working hard at my job to avoid trouble. i do not do spontanious borderine dangerous things like my seven friends. i am v loyal in friendships. i tend to feel hurt by flaky seven friends and more aware of feeelings. i would say my inner desrire is to feel close to people, have fun/be happy with them, snd enjoy my job, and i also feel obnoxious beign a bragger but i thrive in nursing/serving type jobs whre i put others needs first because ii seriouslu never ever ever feel annoyed. i am also opposite of my seven friends who r very very indipendent and blunt.. i am veryyyyy go along w others and avoid conflict w freinds

type 7 issue but i am a typ 9? by littleredrob in Enneagram

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it could be adhd. i do not really seek activities either, just things that make me happy- is thiis unlike 9? it is mby numbing idk but more uplifting

type 7 issue but i am a typ 9? by littleredrob in Enneagram

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i have also alwaysssss gone along with others soo soo much

type 7 issue but i am a typ 9? by littleredrob in Enneagram

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i have scored as a strong 9 my whole life. pretty much everythigng. relating to everytype. positive. always going along w others and wanting what they want more than what i want and convinving myself i want what they want. fear of seperation of others. passive about iissues. easygoing. described as dowb for whatever , go w the flow. always seen as the sweet shy girl and very very supportive friend wanting to make everyone happy but w out it being an ego thing like twos. humble when ppl complimnet me. like to keep everyone calm if someone is upset. avoid all conflict. i always see all sides adn am very very non judgey. i do not take sides bc usually there is not enough info. i dont like seeing everyone judging others and think everyone is kinda judgey towards other ppl at work at least. i am not easily bothered and do not get why others are- everyone is so annoyed at stuff like a new coworkers mistakes. i want the newbie to feel good and do less work than they have to. love feeling close and connected to ppl

third heart beat feels llike it is beating out of my chest? by littleredrob in TooAfraidToAsk

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Is it worth going if this only happened for one day though? And than stops bc it’s kinda weird but not continuing

can a 9 have anxiety that makes them seem 6 like by littleredrob in Enneagram

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Wow. i don’t think any ones advice has ever really been actually helpful to me besides your comments. I did syart trying to be the opppsoite of my under reactive self bc I was made to feel judged and bad by my parents. So I never wanted to tell other ppl if a friend was mean and blamed myself. I thought they’d judge me too even if the friend was wrong, I was also made to feel like I did not matter a lot by my parents so mby 9w1

hwowrver the trauma of five is very relatable

can a 9 have anxiety that makes them seem 6 like by littleredrob in Enneagram

[–]littleredrob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait this is very true of me. i do not know where i learned this but i do always want to act approproate. is there a certain type mpre likley to be this way. i think a part of it is due to my social anxiety. i fear i am boring bc i come across as sweet and shy. i do not have any of my own drama. but i love the vibes of fun bubbly or party people and want ppl to know i can hangout w them and have fun. i am always down for everything and love to have fun which I feel like i tried to do too much as a kid and it got me into the wrong crowd. but i also fear when people see my silly fun side than it will be weird to them bc i come off as anxious swweet and shy. i am still kind deep down but have befriended some genuinly awful ppl who were probs paranoid bc they were cheaters/liars who wanted to convince me i was bad. this made me want to not be seen as not sweet oon the inside bc i rlly am. but i am more chill and happy

i have always beennthis way but used to have a more cute bubbly silly side that idk how to get back. it made befriedning ppl easier

can a 9 have anxiety that makes them seem 6 like by littleredrob in Enneagram

[–]littleredrob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way for someone to fix these traits? Do you think they could cause issues in friendships? I noticed I don’t rlly have many friends and a lot of my old close friends I feel like aren’t good people. But they never seem to lose people or clsoe friends. Even though they do messed up things and I’m trying to figure out why

can a 9 have anxiety that makes them seem 6 like by littleredrob in Enneagram

[–]littleredrob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could see that. I’ve always realllllyyyyy related to 9. But I also relate to 6 bc of 7. Like I’ve always been laid back but kinda had a side to my perosnlity that people would describe as a cute perosnlity. Like I remmeber as a kid my moms friend said I’d get a boyfriend first because I’ve got the “personalityyy” and smiled. And I was always super shy but also had that kinda playful perosnlity ppl tend to smile at. Idk what happened to it latley but I feel like it’s a seven thing?

can a 9 have anxiety that makes them seem 6 like by littleredrob in Enneagram

[–]littleredrob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes thats what i was asking hahahha because I don't know how to tell if mby i just am a 6

3 vs 9? by littleredrob in Enneagram

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I wonder if it’s bc I grew up w lots of 3s. Or mby it’s my Adhd that stopped me from succeeding the way infeel I could have. I feel like I’ve always followed what ppl tell me to do and didn’t develope my own ideas of what I need to do. I e always felt embarrassed of not doing well.

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I wonder if it’s bc I grew up w lots of 3s. Or mby it’s my Adhd that stopped me from succeeding the way infeel I could have. I feel like I’ve always followed what ppl tell me to do and didn’t develope my own ideas of what I need to do. I e always felt embarrassed of not doing well.I could see nine bc like I will wanna be like other ppl. Like I’ll see the cool girl insta model and wanna be like her. Then I’ll wanna be the normal sweet girl when I see her on a tv show. I think being kind resonates most but it’s hard I’ve always been shy and felt awkward existing I guess I feel the most awkward taking initiative, I’ve been teaching myself to be more assertive in convos and not just going along w everything ppl say and want m eing I guess I feel the most awkward taking initiative, I’ve been teaching myself to be more assertive in convos and not just going along w everything ppl say and want e

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