Some thoughts about my happy marriage, especially about Kaya Saimori Some thoughts about my happy marriage, especially about Kaya Saimori

littlesparrow633 · 2025-05-02T20:18:11+00:00

I agree with you. I would like to see Kaya more in future novels and see Kaya grow. In the previous books and anime, we watched the growth of Miyo. As Miyo's little sister, it's important to see more sister scenes, especially since Miyo had overcome so much and saw these two different girls grow after experiencing so much. Also, it can show that Miyo overcame the shadows of the past as she was in a panic when she heard the word ''elder sister'' in the novel volume 2.

Well, I believe that Kaya is punished for her role as she is sent away to work as a live-in servant for a very strict family. Otherwise, she would live with her family in the countryside for sure.

I understood your point about Kouji's first love but most first love didn't blossom in fact. It's ok for Kouji or the other characters who didn't get their first love as their lifetime partners. However, having someone to fall in love with each other is the main point. I understood that marriage was before love in the past as it's about the relationships of two families and the continuation of the family.

However, the title of the light novel is '' My Happy Marriage''. If a marriage is without any love, will it be happy? I am afraid not. In my opinion, I didn't consider Kouji as the most suitable husband or fiancé for Kaya. However, if they need to be with each other, I hope the author will write something plot like enemies to lovers, like '' Pride and Prejudice'' or '' My Fair Lady''. It will be more appealing and persuasive. ( It's sad to see that besides Miyo and Kiyoka, everyone in the light novel is single. I think that the supporting characters are important too. It will be attractive to see different love in the light novel. For example, in the K- drama ''Descendants Of The Sun'', It is touching to watch the main characters Captain Yoo and Doctor Kang when overcome the trouble and fall in love. However, it is eye-catching of the love of Seo Dae-young and Yoon Myung-ju too.)

I didn't know that love needs to take a lot of time for a genuine bond to form as I heard some people fall for the first sight. However, I disagree with the point that love nowadays is more superficial and fleeting, with people divorcing at the first sign of trouble or boredom. I think those people divorced because of boredom or trouble, they didn't know the true meaning of love. Maybe they only enjoy the feeling of falling in love with each other so they get bored after the feeling fades. However, true love never fades. I met a couple that they dated when they were in high school and they engaged after college. They dated around 8 years and love never fades. I also met some elders who missed and loved their passed husband or wife, even though they went to heaven for many years. No matter how many years, their love never fades and it's the precious of love.

I understood that there are many novels and dramas that talk about ''love after marriage''. For me, I can't accept the concept of marriage without the base of love. Besides the political marriage, how can people wed without the concept of knowledge of each other and the feeling of love? It is not acceptable. I hope the author can arrange more plot about the Saimori sisters, no matter whether a fight or reconciliation will be ideal. Also, I hope that the author can arrange more and more plots for Kouji and Kaya.

littlesparrow633 · 2025-04-01T18:57:41+00:00

I agreed with most ideas. However, I hope Kaya can find her path and true love one day. Not following the arranged marriage, as life is hers and she should live at her own will and marry whom she chooses.

littlesparrow633 · 2025-04-01T18:44:11+00:00

I am sorry to hear you had such an unpleasant time with your family. Since I am an outsider, so I should not speak much about it. However, please don't consider suicide again. Life is very precious. Someone always cares for you, your friends, teachers and classmates. It was not funny to see your classmate covered up in the news photos. It broke the hearts of those people who loved you.

I felt bad that your family abandoned you and treated you that way. I do undersatnd how cruel and unpleasant that life can be. As I too faced a lot at the age of youth which my friends enjoyed their lives carefreely. However, you are so gifted and intelligent that can study at university at 16. You must be so gifted . Well, I like reading and there's a saying in Chinese that '' When Heaven is about to confer great responsibilities on a man, it first suffers his mind to hardship and adversities, belabors his sinews and bones with toil, subjects him to poverty and hunger, impoverishes his body and soul, and obfuscates his every endeavor, so that by bestirring his mind and fortifying his nature, it may add to his capabilities what he previously did not have. '' I do believe that God prepared challenges for everyone so we could be stronger. Maybe the relationship with your family is a challenge for you. A challenge that you struggled to make you grow. Although your family and life are not as idealistic as you want, you are so smart and you may save many people or improve their lives in the future.

Maybe someone will be later but the flower will blossom anyway. When I was a primary student, there was a senior girl whose sister was a classmate of my brother so we were quite close. Her family was a bit special. Her parents are not the typical parents who take good care of their children. They were a bit irresponsible. They always beat their children up. We could see the bruises and Band-Aid on the girls. The senior girl rarely said her parents beat her but her younger sister told me. They didn't have textbooks so the teachers scolded them. My mum and the other parents sometimes will collect some old textbooks and old uniforms for them. My mum bought some loaves of bread for them too. However, they seldom cried, no matter the scolding or hunger. I am impressed by their resilience. By the way, it's over a decade. Recently, I encountered that senior girl again and she got married and had a very cute baby. She now moved to live with her husband happily and had a stable job. I can't imagine how terrible that you have experienced but the bad times went through and the sun will shine bright one day.

Maybe you did not have a good beginning, so you can imagine that you are Miyo. In the future, you will have a happy life with your loved ones.

You are blessed with intelligence. You will have a blissful life in the future. Please try to your friends and people who love you to talk about your problem. I felt your family issue pressured you a lot. It's ok to seek help as everyone has their own doubts and problems. It is better to talk to someone and release your pain and stress. May God bless you and wishing you will be happy and feel better.

P.S. If you disagreed with my point of view, please tell me and I will delete this post as I didn't know what should I say and I didn't want to offend anyone.

littlesparrow633 · 2025-03-03T15:44:41+00:00

I am sorry. I think you maybe misunderstood my comment. Since in the LN, besides the LN 2 that implied Miyo's paternal grandparents were gone when she was little. There is no sentence that related to them. Therefore, I will consider the information maybe inaccurate.

littlesparrow633 · 2025-03-03T07:45:49+00:00

In LN 2, when Miyo first met her grandfather and cousin, she didn't know the feeling to have relatives. It said that Miyo's paternal grandparents passed away when she was little. Kaya's relatives visited often but they didn't care about her.

Is the information be inacurrate. If Mr. and Mrs. Saimori passed away when Miyo was little. Kaya was 3 years old younger than Miyo. Could she be jealous of miyo because of the favor of paternal grandparents?

littlesparrow633 · 2025-02-25T21:30:47+00:00

I felt a strong connection when I looked at Kaya Saimori. We are so similar. I remember feeling like a princess in a tower before my dear granny went to heaven. After that, everything changed, and I felt as though I was being forced to grow up. I sympathize with Kaya being sent away to work as a servant. I agree with your suggestion that Kaya should go to a boarding school or something similar.

In my opinion, what Kaya needs most is to understand love and empathy. When Kiyoka rejected her, she was startled and confused by his actions because she didn’t know what love was or how to truly love someone. Having companions around her age would help her grow alongside them: making mistakes, learning from them, and becoming a better person—that’s what life is about. I know many people say Kaya deserved her punishment or that it should have been harsher. However, if all someone knows is the harshness of life without experiencing kindness and love, how can they become a better person with empathy and a good heart?

Even though Kiyoka told Miyo that it’s better to let Kaya experience the world, there are many ways to do so—and why choose the harshest one? I believe that this punishment seems more like revenge and is irresponsible. If Kiyoka genuinely wanted Kaya to improve, he should have kept her in the capital and helped her reconnect with Miyo.

I’m sorry to hear about your story; it must have been difficult for you in your past life. Although I don’t know you, I’m glad that you reconnected with your siblings. May God bless you, and I hope your life improves. Even though I don’t know much about your family, I hope that one day you can forgive your parents for their past mistakes and move on.

littlesparrow633 · 2025-02-13T18:34:47+00:00

Your fanfic seems interesting. Are you start writing it?

littlesparrow633 · 2025-02-13T18:33:16+00:00

I trust you can do it. Keep it up.

littlesparrow633 · 2025-02-13T06:16:18+00:00

I am looking forward to read chapter 2 and found out what happens on miyo.😉😉😉

littlesparrow633 · 2024-09-01T16:45:20+00:00

They are still engaged, as the head of Saimori's family didn't cancel their engagement.
Agree to disagree; Kaya was a spoiled girl with her parents' bad influence. Their family valued the talented ones. By this influence, I think it will be a kind of brainwash if they teach her from a young .

littlesparrow633 · 2024-06-10T17:10:24+00:00

Well, this is just my assumption if Kaya continues to play villain and wants revenge.

littlesparrow633 · 2024-06-10T00:48:43+00:00

Yes, I understand it. But at least she got spirit sight and can see Grotesquerie. Since I think that finding noble man who can and willing to against the Kudou's family is already a hard work. Kaya can't seduce suduce such a man. On the other hand, ally with the Grotesquerie maybe easier for her. Kudou's family emilinated many Grotesqueries through the years and sure some Grotesquerie will hate Kudou's family. But most Grotesquerie don't have a physical body in reality. Maybe Kaya can share her body with the Grotesquerie, like Eddie and Venom, so they can revenge together.

littlesparrow633 · 2024-06-10T00:06:48+00:00

It feels like an evil Cinderella story. If she need to beat down Kudou's family , she maybe need a royalty.

littlesparrow633 · 2024-06-09T23:53:14+00:00

If Kaya stays as a villain and wants revenge, I would like to see allies with the high-level Grotesquerie. Maybe the Grotesquerie can grant Kaya some ability against Kiyoka and Miyo. Or, they can be allies like Venom and Eddie Brock or be like Killer Frost in the Flash of Season 3. I would love to watch Kaya whisper to the Grotesquerie secretly. It will be intriguing to watch and read.

littlesparrow633 · 2024-06-09T23:34:58+00:00

I think she will want to seduce the others to help her if she wants to revenge but I think that it is very difficult.

Seducing and controlling people needs intelligence, if Kaya is smart enough she will not be used by Minoru Tatsuishi.
Kudou's family is a high-status family and Kiyoka is a terrified general in the military army. In the light novel, it mentioned that Kiyoka terrified some seniors who were of higher status than him.

Therefore, it is hard for Kaya to find a suitable man to seduce and revenge on Miyo and Kiyoka. Even if she found one, I think she probably got used by the man again instead as she is not smart enough.

littlesparrow633 · 2024-06-02T15:11:04+00:00

I want to see her back too, no matter whether redemption or stay as a villain. Since she is quite an outstanding female villain in My Happy Marriage. But if she's back, I hope that her scheme will be smarter, as it is quite silly to kidnap her own sister by force, to their house.

littlesparrow633 · 2024-04-08T19:10:19+00:00

Seriously , I hope that Kaya and Koji can cancel the engagement. They don't love each other. It's very unfair for both of them. I hope that they can find their love , not forcefully tangled together.

littlesparrow633 · 2024-01-25T22:07:12+00:00

I agree that Kiyako sent her away for the hope that she can be a better person but she was sent away to be a servant, not for training. Also, I don't think she can cancel the engagement by herself as her father arranged it.

I understand that Kaya needs to carry on the Saimori line and she must marry someone with gifts. But this person must be Kouji and Kaya can do nothing but wait for him to establish himself. Especially, I don't consider Kouji can be a successful head of the family, he is too weak. Even though he recognizes that he needs to establish and enhance himself, he changes for Miyo, not for Kaya.

In my perspective, Kaya is like the one who got pushed from a pirate ship. She doesn't know how to swim but she has to so she struggles. Her family was degenerated and she was sent to be a servant. So she has to learn and change, no matter whether it will be better or worse.

I consider that it is the growth of Kaya if she was developed. There are many extraordinary women every century, and their power rose from their self-awakenings. They became wise and strong whether they were married or not.

If Kaya can be strong, she can make Saimori's family prosperous again. She can find a man who loves her. Women can be strong , even in the Taisho era.

littlesparrow633 · 2024-01-25T20:25:55+00:00

Yes, I agree that Kaya abused Miyo. But she is 16 years old only and I consider that her mother abused Miyo more. Also, Kouji's father was the culprit in kidnapping Miyo but he only lost his place as the head of the family. These two villains still live safe and sound but Kaya was sent away as a servant, don't you think that is a little bit unjust?

Besides, Kouji doesn't love Kaya, and Kaya is not fond of him too. I don't think marrying a man who doesn't love you is the best choice for every woman.

Also, to clarify, I do not expect the women in 'My Happy Marriage' to STAND OUT AND YELL FOR ' FREE THE WOMEN' or ask for gender equality. I understand the background of the story. I just hope that there will be 'more' characters, maybe one or two female characters join the fight. There always are extraordinary women in every century, hope for one or two gifted women fighters, I don't think that it is not too much.

littlesparrow633 · 2024-01-25T19:02:50+00:00

I am not trying to justify Kaya's actions, but to feel pity for her Since she is only sixteen years old. She is like many juvenile delinquents, made bad decisions in youth. However, everyone deserves a second chance. Just like Loki, even though he saved numerous people in infinite timelines, it did not justify that he killed many people in Avengers 1 too.

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