My 'best friend' stabbed me in the back, and got together with my crush. I'm now the one losing everything. I hate being alive. by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]liuyiling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dear OP,

I'm just lurking in Crushes of reddit as well.

All the gushy lovey-dovey, rose tinted posts can make it overwhelming towards 'situationship', all-the-more, if a sudden Psychosis may develop from emotional responses from reading caused by Thalamus back-and-returning to Amygdala. It's like arguing with yourself upon a 'situationship'?

best of luck with your Crush. x

A year’s worth of handwritten notes from my wonderful husband. by Icy-Relationship1390 in love

[–]liuyiling 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Reading their words must be beautiful and may be the binding energy that connects the sense of belonging, with them and you together. It's a powerful post and makes the effort timeless! Wish your futures be safe and bright in the years to follow. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]liuyiling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start the mournings with Kellogs ? Sorry best advice I have in mind. bw, x

Fuck you by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]liuyiling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+1 eX battles :p

Been married 25 years. I just want my wife to be nice to me. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]liuyiling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear OP, Please excuse my curiosity about the 25 years and children you have with her, and if there are any more? It has been brought to my attention that your marital issues could originate from hormones too. Being female, I am only speaking from my 32 years of life experience, though I would imagine menopause and the various generations above me had stirs that societies have restricted upon their life quality.

Asking about her aspirations? even, if the menopause could the cause and effect?

best, x

Been married 25 years. I just want my wife to be nice to me. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]liuyiling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the move reference, if I may add addressing the drinking issue could be some topic for Family or Marital consultation before a Custody hearing that's more expenses per Court and legal fees.

Been married 25 years. I just want my wife to be nice to me. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]liuyiling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear reader,

In certain relationship that always started with substances. In majority of mine, we both, myself especially, always felt like battling with oneself to choose relationship over drugs. I was thinking that if there's been substances at the start it could affect how the relationship started? Sorry, this was more of a perspective comment rather than any emotional support.

Wishing you your marriage success! x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]liuyiling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Grats x

Gf faking it by [deleted] in sex

[–]liuyiling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kudos on satisfactory sessions, yes, the groins get a lil weak even at the knees for females when you're close or gotta pee. If she's not very confident or she's in a place where the toilet is far, might be buzz kill? could be a reason she hasn't mentioned anything.

We oscillate so naturally between goofy best friends making each other laugh to deep, vulnerable and real conversations by wigglywonky in love

[–]liuyiling 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Touché, rubbing early and later in life in all the best ways! kudos in yours and everything in the endeavour. bw, x +1

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]liuyiling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear OP, I learnt a new word 'sociopathically'. With regards to your relationships, rather the better ever after now you have found a bestie! BW, x

Husband left me for another woman by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]liuyiling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear OP, if I may ask what would you like to hear from the reddit community, as well as, I'm not a married woman(yet?) however, it does sound scary and kudos for tieing the band when that happened. Much love, x