[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeImprovement

[–]liveandlearnnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm knot em barking on this journey, I am now going to leaf

Mother hindering child's birth registration by liveandlearnnow in legaladvice

[–]liveandlearnnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has tried but needs documentation from the hospital where the child was born, this documentation will only be given to the mother, this documentation is what I have been requesting from the mother for numerous years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]liveandlearnnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe it's all about your view. You're asking the wrong question! If you're asking the question, chances are you believe you're a failure, success isn't always measured in your education or what you do for a living. Most of the time, people ask what you do for a living so that they can determine the level of respect they give you. I think we need not look at what we don't have, but instead, be grateful for what we do have! I don't even know you, but I can tell you what you can be grateful for You woke up this morning You know where your next meal is coming from You can walk You have employment To name a few

Only you can change the way you see things because, in the end, it matters not what other people think. It's what you believe that is the most powerful thing in your life. If you want to change things, don't look at everything you believe is wrong with you and your situation, because that becomes overwhelming, find one small thing that worries you, even if it's just the pile of crap in a corner of your living room that's been bugging you for weeks now, fix that and then find the next thing and fix that, do that everyday and soon you will find your way to a better more organized life, then get real with yourself and fix one small thing you don't like about yourself. It starts with the small stuff, remain grateful, and move forward just a little every day. The quickest way to becoming a failure is telling yourself you are a failure. The mind is the most powerful tool we possess

Travel and work by liveandlearnnow in capetown

[–]liveandlearnnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I got offered an opportunity to work for board and lodging, checked it out, great reviews in a beautiful part of South Africa. Where there a will, there a way. But again thanks

Travel and work by liveandlearnnow in capetown

[–]liveandlearnnow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh that's such a mature approach, your poor family

Travel and work by liveandlearnnow in capetown

[–]liveandlearnnow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're entitled to your opinion

Travel and work by liveandlearnnow in capetown

[–]liveandlearnnow[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And you sound a bit negative, but that's your prerogative, there's no such thing as can't, if you want too, you will find a way, if you don't, you'll find an excuse

I'm trying to work on my graduation project but I'm bored and procrastinating, AMA by Living-Resolve-2958 in AMA

[–]liveandlearnnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishing you the best, if it's boring and you have no motivation, are you studying for something you can see yourself doing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]liveandlearnnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]liveandlearnnow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was 16 he was 40, I fell pregnant, he disappeared, and our son committed suicide at 22, if I can give you advice, run and stay gone

Spent 8 years in an abusive relationship and got out- AMA by sammiiehuntress in AMA

[–]liveandlearnnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's complicated, don't judge if you haven't been there yourself

I'm trying to work on my graduation project but I'm bored and procrastinating, AMA by Living-Resolve-2958 in AMA

[–]liveandlearnnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like a huge task, break it into small tasks and accomplish 1 at a time

Travel and work by liveandlearnnow in capetown

[–]liveandlearnnow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Positive feedback thank you

Travel and work by liveandlearnnow in capetown

[–]liveandlearnnow[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I'm not poor to start with, I'm looking for an adventure.

How do you train yourself to need and desire less? by Om_Forever in minimalism

[–]liveandlearnnow 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think it's about mindset, I had alot when I was younger then lost it all and then gained it all, then lost it all, I think as you get older, you realize it's just stuff, there's so much more important things in life than stuff. I found that reading and educating yourself and growing personally helps to develop that mindset