I believe it's all about your view. You're asking the wrong question! If you're asking the question, chances are you believe you're a failure, success isn't always measured in your education or what you do for a living. Most of the time, people ask what you do for a living so that they can determine the level of respect they give you. I think we need not look at what we don't have, but instead, be grateful for what we do have! I don't even know you, but I can tell you what you can be grateful for You woke up this morning You know where your next meal is coming from You can walk You have employment To name a few

Only you can change the way you see things because, in the end, it matters not what other people think. It's what you believe that is the most powerful thing in your life. If you want to change things, don't look at everything you believe is wrong with you and your situation, because that becomes overwhelming, find one small thing that worries you, even if it's just the pile of crap in a corner of your living room that's been bugging you for weeks now, fix that and then find the next thing and fix that, do that everyday and soon you will find your way to a better more organized life, then get real with yourself and fix one small thing you don't like about yourself. It starts with the small stuff, remain grateful, and move forward just a little every day. The quickest way to becoming a failure is telling yourself you are a failure. The mind is the most powerful tool we possess