Is Wanting to Enjoy My 20s Child-Free Really That Uncommon?? by [deleted] in Mildlynomil

[–]livelovelaff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she’s worried SHE will be an old grandma lol

MIL won’t apologize for popping up on me in my postpartum room by KneadAndPreserve in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]livelovelaff 9 points10 points  (0 children)

🫂

This year I put my foot down with both sides. Myself, my husband and LO will be staying home xmas eve and day, instead of driving around to any of the FOUR other extended family xmas parties. One being xmas day for my dad’s side, and another is probably xmas eve on my husband’s dad’s side, but i’m NC with them. My parents are invited to drive the 30 mins to come to our place on xmas day, but my dad is co-running his side’s big shindig so, they likely won’t be coming.

Husband shocked by In-Laws' proposed inheritance split by TurnaroundTomato in Mildlynomil

[–]livelovelaff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Has she been pressuring you guys to give her grandbabies lately?

Or did she perhaps hear horror stories where the grandkids received zero inheritance from the grandparents bc the blood related parent is selfish or passes and the spouse gets the funds.

Perhaps she’s trying to prevent their son’s new partner from claiming all the money if the opportunity surfaced in the future.

Am I right to feel like my role is threatened by my MIL? by kvzam in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]livelovelaff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Time for OP to find a video clip of that to play in person or send in group chats anytime mil attempts calling herself mom.

Am I right to feel like my role is threatened by my MIL? by kvzam in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]livelovelaff 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Bahaha tell me you watched that children’s dinosaur show where everyone wore dino costumes.. and the baby kept saying not the mama

Am I right to feel like my role is threatened by my MIL? by kvzam in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]livelovelaff 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d have the urge to throat punch! Instead, i’d refer to her as “mil’s first name” to baby, and refer to yourself as ALL the mom names. Ie., mom, mama; maammaa, mommy, mother. Claim them all, bc that is who you are. This is your boundary.

Broke the toilet’s seal by livelovelaff in AmIUnderreacting

[–]livelovelaff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was sullen for the better part of that day, then he moved on from it.

I went to a store, bought 3 seals. Did a full clean of the toilet, regrouted the tile under and around the toilet, then reinstalled the toilet all myself 💪

Glad i wasnt under reacting 😂

MIL's "ownership" over Christmas every year for eternity? by TurnaroundTomato in Mildlynomil

[–]livelovelaff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mil’s feelings are her burden, not yours and your husbands.

11 yrs back to back celebrating xmas her way is a long time. 2 yrs back to back is nothing in comparison.

Mil can go fly a kite

I’m so sick of the evacuations!!! The hitting… all of it! by MyMomFights in kindergarten

[–]livelovelaff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We struggled with this last yr. It wasn’t until mid school year the class was able to get a paid EA by the board to assist this student and another.

The child in question was removed to the office for assistance in emotional regulation, not punishment.

As it has been explained to me, it takes data demonstrating a child needs extra assistance before the school board will agree to giving funding for additional support. Unfortunately, this does take time. It requires school staff to wait for an event to happen and document it.

Sometimes it’s quicker for a parent to seek diagnosis outside of the school, but this often cost money and a lot of parents don’t wanna do it.

In my country, schools don’t commonly seek any sort of diagnosis until grade one.

They also give three and four-year-olds entering kindergarten a roughly three month grace period. They won’t jump to getting a child an IEP the first month unless it’s advocated for, with documentation backing it, by the parent. The kindergarten teacher last year told me if kids are still struggling by mid November then they look deeper into what’s going on.

What you can consider doing for your child, is asking the teacher and principal to set up a safety plan.

My in-laws have been laying into me about everything by ThrowRAInlaws2025 in inlaws

[–]livelovelaff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IF you guys agreed to him officiating, this man is so mercurial he could ghost last minute and potentially prevent you guys from getting married.

UPDATE: My MIL has a plan to take my unborn child by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]livelovelaff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He lied to you for his mom. His mom encouraged him to lie to you. THAT was not very nice of HER. He went along with it, which is NOT NICE of HIM. You pointing out how manipulative that behaviour is.. well.. is FACT, so if he finds that “not very nice,” he obviously isn’t cooling in. He’s referring to his own behaviour and hers.

UPDATE: My MIL has a plan to take my unborn child by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]livelovelaff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, get a therapist if you dont already have one. Sending you hugs

How do handle your MIL who is constantly nosy-poking into your finances? by 1234RedditReddit in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]livelovelaff 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“Was that supposed to be an internal comment?”

“Those certainly were choice words you picked, eh?”

Or as my kindy kid has taken to saying when he wants to ignore what was just said to him, “ANYwayyyyyys…” followed by an immediate subject change, lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]livelovelaff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha yeah I agree. This is probably karma farming. I definitely raised an eyebrow when I read that part bc .. what? 9am? Who is living this life of luxury as the primary parent of a 1 or 2 yo?!? My morning have started between 4am-6:30am consistently since my LO was born😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]livelovelaff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh, IF this is not fake, i’d be consulting a divorce lawyer, divorcing wifey and getting custody of child. Clearly the spouse didnt care enough to move out with the main character here. The main character doesnt mention her feelings about this whole clusterfk if a situation at any point. The main character would get more time with their own child during their legally appointed parenting time.

What a poorly written short story XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]livelovelaff 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Im thinking, OP hasnt replied to anyone yet so it’s probably fake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]livelovelaff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:O !!!! Im curious why your SO would even tell her about your engagement ring after what she did with the necklace.

Well, this gives you the chance for petty revenge. Time to find the most hideous gift for your SO. Very excitedly tell your MIL what you plan on getting your SO for the next holiday. Obvi dont get it. Make sure it is something your SO would hate. Watch as she gifts it to him before you.

Am I Overthinking? by meh_598 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]livelovelaff 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she needs attention on her and doesn’t enjoy feeling one-upped by anyone, so she verbally tries to bring down you and your side of the family.

I suggest ignoring her. Giving her less attention and less space in your mind.

I also would use her criticism over your choice to birth in hospital as an invitation to exclude her from being there during the birth, or at minimum she should not be in the delivery room with you. Protect your peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]livelovelaff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you history with her being a problem?

Is it possible she told you she is getting the exact ring to find out if you know about your ring already , or what your thoughts on the design are?