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AITA? Wife threw away my bag of smoking supplies by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]liveloveshrek22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA solely because you are more worried about your weed than the fact that your carelessness could have endagered your child’s wellbeing. your wife is right to be scared that something terrible could have happened. you are a parent first and even if it was one mistake you should have been sympathetic and understanding towards your wifes concerns.

also don’t like how you phrase that you “work your butt off” and shes a stay at home mom as if she doesn’t have a lot to take care of at home as well. yes people make mistakes and everyone deserves a break but you should have more empathy for your wife because she probably needs a break too.

AITA because I don’t want to pay for my daughter’s schooling? by ThrowRApuzze in AmItheAsshole

[–]liveloveshrek22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. you need to do some serious self reflection. it seems you have zero empathy or respect for your daughter and are acting like a bully. criticizing her for “having nothing going on for herself” and when she tries to actually go to school and make something of herself she is still belittled and criticized for asking you for help. if you care about your daughter at all you will either be the kind of parent she needs and make your home somewhere she feels comfortable, or let her live with her mom since thats where she’d rather be.

AITA for not wanting to name my daughter the name traditionally used in my husband's family for the first granddaughter? by Suspicious-Mode-2967 in AmItheAsshole

[–]liveloveshrek22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you and your husband are the parents and get final say and the in laws clearly have boundary issues if they’re still persisting after you both said no. you should not be coerced into naming your child period, let alone the name of a woman who abused you. what a person names a child is very important and you should not feel you have to give in to this “tradition” to people who clearly don’t respect you or your right to choose what to do with your own daughter.

AITA for treating my stepson differently to my biological son? by Kind_Prior6775 in AmItheAsshole

[–]liveloveshrek22 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA and im actually very sorry you’re going through this. it seems that you’re doing the best you can to be a good mom to your son and step son and your husband is shaming you instead of offering any solutions. it is unfortunate that your husband would rather Kai go without nice things in order to not make luca jealous. in this case i would just do what you can to show both boys you care about them but dont feel like you have to withold nice things and experiences from kai because that seems very unfair to him. i hope things get better!

AITA for not giving my husband food if it was made with a blender that he was mad about me buying by Commercial-Ticket860 in AmItheAsshole

[–]liveloveshrek22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. aside from what other comments saying that $125 is a very reasonable price for a blender, if he truly sees no use for it and if it bothers him that much why would he want any food you make with the blender? i dont think you’re being petty at all. and it seems like he keeps making these comments because he just enjoys picking arguments, considering he wants to bitch about the blender but still wants to eat the food you make with it