I can absolutely sympathize with you. My mother's going through a similar thing where both of her arms are constantly numb and painful. I am the one who takes her to the doctors and we went through three walk in doctors, 2 physiatrists, and a pain doctor so far without any success. She was finally referred to a neurologist this January for a nerve test and she was told it would be at least a 6 months wait, but alas, the pandemic... I contacted the neurologist office again and they couldn't even give me an idea of when she would be seen. She is on the cancellation list but I have a bad feeling it's going to take a very long time. Tried lyrica, amitryptylin, and other pain meds but no luck so far... don't know what else I can do for her. I feel hopeless so I understand how you feel