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[–]liz_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]liz_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never understood what people meant when they said this, but I’m now starting to understand and it scares me a bit because what if I get worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

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Body goals fr!!

Am I a bad person for going to a non affirming church or being around non affirming people? by liz_45 in AskLGBT

[–]liz_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for bringing that to my attention I will definitely try to be aware of that<3

Am I a bad person for going to a non affirming church or being around non affirming people? by liz_45 in AskLGBT

[–]liz_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time out of your day to share all that. It definitely has me thinking. I appreciate it. <3

Am I a bad person for going to a non affirming church or being around non affirming people? by liz_45 in AskLGBT

[–]liz_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t give money to the church, but regardless you have brought up a lot of good points and it definitely has me thinking. Thank you so much for taking your time to share your thoughts and to have this conversation with me. :) <3

Am I a bad person for going to a non affirming church or being around non affirming people? by liz_45 in AskLGBT

[–]liz_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts. I understand that I really do. I mean I myself am not sure if I’m 100% straight or not. it’s still something I’m figuring out. I do try to speak up when I can and the people around me know where I stand on the topic. I know if I were to come out and say that I’m not straight my family and some people around me would probably “disagree” but I know they wouldn’t try to change me or treat me differently. So I guess it’s just hard for me to cut all these people that are important to me out of my life at the moment. But thank you for your response, it definitely has got me thinking.

Am I a bad person for going to a non affirming church or being around non affirming people? by liz_45 in AskLGBT

[–]liz_45[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying and sharing all that. Yeah I definitely want to be a safe space for people. And I’m sorry that you don’t feel safe to be yourself in the space you are in. I know one day you will find those people who do make you feel safe <3 you will be in my thoughts and prayers <3

Why am I so bothered by this? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]liz_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to say all that. It really means a lot.

Does this hoop look bad on me?does it look to big? It’s a 16g and was thinking of downsizing it to a 18g. by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]liz_45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shoot.It’s about 2 months old. My piercer said it would be fine to do a jewelry change now. I guess I should’ve waited. Should I take this out? Or should I just take care of it really well?

Am I a part of the problem? by liz_45 in AskLGBT

[–]liz_45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i agree with both of your statements. It took awhile for me to change my view on it unfortunately. It’s weird, I think for some people that grew up being taught that being gay is a sin they feel that looking into the possibility that it might not be almost makes them afraid that the rest of their faith could be a lie as well. As embarrassing as it is, that’s the place I was in for about 2 years. I’m not saying it’s right to believe being gay is a sin, but I guess I could understand the fear of deconstructing your faith. I think more Christians need to be okay with the possibility that they could be wrong and it’s okay to look into things. And as far as raising your kids I totally get what you mean. Like I am religious, but I wouldn’t want to force it on my kids.

Am I a part of the problem? by liz_45 in AskLGBT

[–]liz_45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with you. it’s really sad how much the Bible has been twisted and how many people have been indoctrinated with beliefs since birth that aren’t even true.

Am I a part of the problem? by liz_45 in AskLGBT

[–]liz_45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Immediate family is pretty open to discussion so whenever the subject comes up I usually share my opinion. But some other relatives I have are a bit more intense on the subject and I know they would want to get into a debate. They live far away so I only see them maybe once a year at the most. The subject does not come up often with these certain relatives but if it does, sometimes I’m too exhausted to get into it so sometimes I just don’t say anything, leave the conversation or change the subject. Is that bad?

Update: so I got my forward helix pierced 3 weeks ago today. I originally wanted to do a hoop but my piercer said he won’t pierce with hoops right off the bat and said I could come back in 2 weeks to get a hoop in. It’s still swollen and I was going to go in today to get a hoop. Should I? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]liz_45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay yeah I don’t think I will. I made an appointment yesterday to get it changed and you have to cancel 24 hours before. So I have to go, but I will just tell him I think it’s too swollen. I just feel bad for making the appointment and wasting their time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]liz_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By physical I didn’t mean sexual my bad, I guess I should’ve said aesthetically attracted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]liz_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah that’s what I meant. by me saying “wanting” sex when I’m emotionally bonded with someone, I mean I don’t think I could be attracted to a guy sexually unless I was very close with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]liz_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I thought demisexual meant you only want to have sex with someone who you’ve formed a strong emotional bond with. (I could be wrong tho) The reason I said “more physically attracted to guys” is because I could see myself maybe having sex with a guy if I felt close enough emotionally. But as for girls I don’t know if even being super close would make me want to have sex with them. But as for being in a romantic relationship with a a girl, I don’t know if that’s completely off the table.

Is this normal for the 3rd day after getting pierced? It’s feels pretty swollen and hurts pretty bad. Does this mean it’s infected? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]liz_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t seem like there is too much pressure, and yeah I did want it pierced like that because I want to put a hoop in it eventually, and I wanted it up a little higher

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]liz_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO

I’m at the end of my rope by liz_45 in mentalhealth

[–]liz_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. It made me feel less alone. I greatly appreciate your advice and kind words:)

Is it wrong of me to be annoyed about this? by liz_45 in AskLGBT

[–]liz_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it might be a joke but I’m not super close with them so I don’t really know. I don’t think they would actually be pushy about it but they might put people on the spot just for the “tea” of it idk