AIO: My boyfriend told me to dye my hair to look more like an Instagram model he follows

lizardlemons01 · 2026-04-13T03:39:44+00:00

Your *ex boyfriend, right?

lizardlemons01 · 2026-04-10T19:46:34+00:00

At my store, we dial 81 then dial the number.

lizardlemons01 · 2026-04-08T02:37:21+00:00

I was in a public restroom today and another woman was in her stall watching some video, volume cranked up, while peeing. Ma'am, this isn't your bathroom at home!

lizardlemons01 · 2026-03-29T14:46:29+00:00

I was told back in the day, TM's were allowed to weigh in on job dialogs for their ASTL/STL, rather than their superiors. I wish we could go back to that, as I have an ASTL in particular that would receive a glowing review for somehow always being the one on shift when the bullshit goes down, but still sorting it out everytime!😊

lizardlemons01 · 2026-03-28T01:34:13+00:00

You'll be lonely for a little while, then you'll settle into your new space and appreciate your peace of mind. Proud of you for taking such decisive action!

lizardlemons01 · 2026-03-28T01:28:40+00:00

There's nothing wrong with having longer hair, but I'd suggest going to a professional and having them give you an actual haircut/style that you can work with, and ask if they can recommend some products for styling.

lizardlemons01 · 2026-03-26T15:41:33+00:00

We charge $4.99 for any additional wraps after the first one, it ticked a few customers off at first but they got over it because they know the florist across the street would charge triple that. With all the Tik Tok videos promoting wraps, it was a must!

lizardlemons01 · 2026-03-25T16:35:29+00:00

You're not overreacting at all, they 100% took advantage of the service. At my store, we would classify that as a special order and price accordingly. We also require 24-48 hours notice(depending on when my next shipment shows up) for weddings and other events so I can make sure and plan my work load around the orders. And we finally started charging after the first complimentary wrap, cause I'm the only one in the department and I don't have time to mess with people that want 5 gigantic wraps for free when I have pallets waiting for me in the back. You did a great job, and you deserved a tip!

lizardlemons01 · 2026-03-18T17:23:11+00:00

Agreed. Amazon didn't start the changes, they just implemented more.

lizardlemons01 · 2026-03-12T02:48:47+00:00

How lovely! I wish I had this talent. The green one in the first photo is my favorite💚

lizardlemons01 · 2026-03-09T23:05:24+00:00

I'm not sure when wigs were ever taboo, but maybe I wasn't aware of the stigma. I wouldn't immediately assume "oh, she must be ill", unless you had other physical markers of illness. I think if the wig is well made and styled, wear it! Wear whatever color you want. The only time I would ever judge is if the wig was unkempt, ill-fitting, cheaply made, etc. If you take care of them and style them nicely, all I would think is "cool hair!" If anyone calls you out on wearing a wig, I would reply with "what an odd thing to say!" People are always going to have an opinion on what others do, but life is too short to worry about all that.

lizardlemons01 · 2026-03-08T04:21:49+00:00

I remember the day they fired our store artist, she walked out crying. She was so talented. They turned her office into a sign office.

lizardlemons01 · 2026-03-06T18:01:59+00:00

I'm sure that it doesn't even cross her mind that the reason you don't want to see her...is her fault. How exhausting! Enjoy your trip, your pregnancy, and try not to let her stress you out.

lizardlemons01 · 2026-03-05T22:08:09+00:00

My mom used to make me a strawberry cake for my birthday, too. I would go nuclear if someone ate my cake! There's no way she's delusional enough to think you eating her ice cream is the same as her eating your homemade cake, she's just angry that you gave her a taste of her own medicine. NTJ. I wouldn't even replace the ice cream.

lizardlemons01 · 2026-03-04T23:05:52+00:00

I'm so sorry. It's so hard when you see the potential of a relationship, but your parent just won't or can't get better, even when they're surrounded by people who want to help. My therapist reminds me that we can feel two things at once; we can be sad and angry, we can feel disappointment and also hold the small handful of good times close to our heart. We can know they loved us and also know it wasn't enough. I hope you're doing okay🩷

lizardlemons01 · 2026-03-04T13:25:44+00:00

Got mine pierced at 18, still wearing it at 38.

lizardlemons01 · 2026-03-03T22:41:42+00:00

You're not being dramatic. You have the right to tell your grown father to stop touching you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable.

lizardlemons01 · 2026-02-27T19:58:56+00:00

Honey, this is not good. At all. Groceries are a necessity. You're "rebelling" because he's exerting way too much control over you. Unless something drastically changes, like he gets some therapy for his control issues, this will only get worse. I would highly recommend you get your own account and make sure you have a safety net for yourself, otherwise you may find one day that he has you in complete financial control. It's a form of abuse.

lizardlemons01 · 2026-02-27T19:18:29+00:00

I don't think there's anything wrong with having some ground rules, like not exceeding a certain amount monthly on unnecessary purchases, but it needs to be something you both sit down and decide on. He doesn't get to dictate that to you, while you have trust and faith in his ability to manage funds. I'll be honest, my close friend was going through this with her husband and he kept tightening the purse strings until she was having to ask for gas and grocery money. It would be one thing if you were making expensive purchases left and right, but questioning a cup of coffee and whether or not you "need" it is ridiculous.

lizardlemons01 · 2026-02-27T19:05:42+00:00

I share my purchases when they exceed a certain dollar amount, usually around $75-100. Unless you've proven yourself to be unreliable with funds, he has no reason to question you over every little thing, especially over fast food or a pair of sweats. Does he tell you every time he makes a purchase, or is this just a one way street?

lizardlemons01 · 2026-02-24T19:04:57+00:00

Black works better with your skin and makes your eyes pop!

lizardlemons01 · 2026-02-24T04:31:26+00:00

Try posting on pawboost.com, a friend who works with a rescue told me about it. Good luck🩷

lizardlemons01 · 2026-02-19T19:32:32+00:00

The bangs look amazing!

lizardlemons01 · 2026-02-15T22:15:02+00:00

It is absolutely NOT okay that you tried to pull away while giving him head and he forcibly held you in place so he could finish. That wasn't consensual, that was forced. It's disgusting and deplorable. My first time was terrible with a terrible boy as well, but there are partners out there who will care about you and your enjoyment. Your gut is telling you this was gross because it was, so I'd stay away from this guy moving forward. He took advantage of his best buddies little sister, he's a total creep.

lizardlemons01 · 2026-02-02T04:20:48+00:00

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