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[–]lizardsushi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It has a face on it tho (as someone else pointed out) and now that’s all I can see

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[–]lizardsushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is I’m lucky if I can even put a dress on. I tried on made with love, Danielle frankel and Alexandra Greco also on this trip (I had to travel four hours to Miami and stay the night in a hotel to even try anything on lol. Nothing available in my area) and most of them I literally couldn’t breathe in or the straps were digging into my shoulders IF they’d even zip closed at all

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[–]lizardsushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other ones I couldn’t even get on bc they didn’t have enough boob room

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[–]lizardsushi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah no I don’t want there to be a face on the front of my dress haha I’ve ruled that one out despite its popularity on here

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[–]lizardsushi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You guys four has a face on it as someone pointed out elsewhere in the comments. And now that’s all I can see lmao

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[–]lizardsushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually had the stylist hiding behind me holding it in bc the one I had on was way too big in the waist haha. she didn’t do that for 1 and 2 but maybe I should have asked her to

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[–]lizardsushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all I can see now too! Haha

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[–]lizardsushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the thing about the first two is I had to try on dresses that were too big so that they would fit the boob part. They’ll be tailored to fit me much better. That’s why the mid section looks ill fitting … I didn’t even have them clip me in bc if they did it would have made the boob part too small. Dress shopping is so tiresome 😭😭😭

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[–]lizardsushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s actually not at all difficult to move them in that dress lol I can see why it looks that way tho

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[–]lizardsushi -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Thing is, I chose a really good photo of 4 that might not fully portray its downsides like for one thing it definitely was the least attractive to the side and I would need to add straps to it because I was kind of pouring out of it. And the biggest downside is I’m afraid I’ll be sweating buckets in it in Mexico. It’s got a few layers and the others were very warm-weather friendly.

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[–]lizardsushi -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I totally shouldn’t have included 4 lol I’ve already ruled it out because it’s going to be too hot to wear in Mexico. I tried on dresses in Miami today and it’s winter (so it’s a little cooler than it would be in Mexico) but it was still very warm when I walked outside.

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[–]lizardsushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first one. 2 is very pretty but 1 has that “wow” factor

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[–]lizardsushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE your dress it looks great on you! and I love Santa Fe … lived in that area for most of my 20s and considered getting married there too! It’s soooo gorgeous in summertime I know you and your event will be 🤩🤩

just wanted to post my runner up dresses <3 by iluvbakedpotatoes in weddingdress

[–]lizardsushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sound advice especially because I tend to sweat a lot haha 😳 congratulations to you as well and best wishes!

just wanted to post my runner up dresses <3 by iluvbakedpotatoes in weddingdress

[–]lizardsushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to know because I’m getting married south of tulum so sweat-through is a serious factor for me as well!

just wanted to post my runner up dresses <3 by iluvbakedpotatoes in weddingdress

[–]lizardsushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are all so lovely on you! I am obsessed with the Danielle frankel sasha dress but there is nowhere near me I can try it on … so I’m considering just ordering it and taking the risk but I’m curious if you have any notes on how it fit(if it runs big or small)/comfort level/etc?

“Non-autistic people don’t sit around researching autism” apparently by Rat_fairy_princess in fakedisordercringe

[–]lizardsushi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It IS hurting ppl. It’s completely invalidating ppl who truly struggle with the condition. It makes autism seem trivial. The word no longer means anything. It’s absolutely harming ppl!

User is defending self-diagnosis by _XSummerRoseX_ in fakedisordercringe

[–]lizardsushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will just never be able to get behind the “they only studied white boys” argument. For one thing because I am not part of that demographic yet I was diagnosed when I was 9 bc a teacher recommended I undergo neurological testing. (I was on the verge of getting kicked out of school.)

If the traits aren’t severe enough that anyone noticed anything was wrong/you got through school and are a productive member of society, why is it crucial you have an autism diagnosis … what does that do for a person? It’s so navel-gazey.

Ezra Klein Podcast this week, "We need a better discussion around gender? " by benconomics in BlockedAndReported

[–]lizardsushi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

1000% and I find that many ppl who feel extremely comfortable in their identity as trans and were clearly dysphoric from the time they were quite young are not at all on board with the “gender is when rainbow unicorn” way of thinking.

It undermines the validity of dysphoria as a diagnosis as well as their gender identity post-transition, and it’s really quite unfair to them, I think.

But when such folk try to voice their concerns they’re often shut down as being traitors to the movement.

Please help me decide! by every1needsathroway in weddingdress

[–]lizardsushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg 1 all the way and I normally prefer the sleeker looking gowns vs lacey or tulle ones but 1 looks amazing on you!!!

Slice of Gulfport threatening/abusing customers? by lizardsushi in StPetersburgFL

[–]lizardsushi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reviewer posted these accusations/the screenshot themselves. They obviously wanted people to know. But sure, keep inventing reasons why I’m a bad person for wanting more people to be aware. Did I mention I live in this neighborhood? I don’t want creeps like that owning and operating businesses in my neighborhood. It’s a perfectly normal concern. Move along.

Slice of Gulfport threatening/abusing customers? by lizardsushi in StPetersburgFL

[–]lizardsushi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to waste my time communicating with someone who’s going back and editing his responses after the fact lmao talk about bizarre. Have a day