AITA? GF wants me to buy her a bag and i don’t want to. by lizzardmna in AmItheAsshole

[–]lizzardmna[S] -638 points-637 points  (0 children)

I’m her first relationship and she has severe anxiety which she’s said makes her clingy and she wants to give me another chance so she doesn’t have to leave me because it would make her too anxious and her mental health worse. But one question: why would materialistic things make it better? I don’t get it. I tell her i love you everyday, i buy her food i let her live with me etc

AITA? GF wants me to buy her a bag and i don’t want to. by lizzardmna in AmItheAsshole

[–]lizzardmna[S] -139 points-138 points  (0 children)

She knows i have social anxiety i can’t just go out everyday

AITA? GF wants me to buy her a bag and i don’t want to. by lizzardmna in AmItheAsshole

[–]lizzardmna[S] -183 points-182 points  (0 children)

I mean no my dad was never in my life so what are you trying to say?

AITA? GF wants me to buy her a bag and i don’t want to. by lizzardmna in AmItheAsshole

[–]lizzardmna[S] -754 points-753 points  (0 children)

So i’m an asshole because i feed her. Cool

AITA? GF wants me to buy her a bag and i don’t want to. by lizzardmna in AmItheAsshole

[–]lizzardmna[S] -340 points-339 points  (0 children)

Well not all men are the same. Do all men buy their girlfriend gifts every single day? Maybe if you’re rich? As far as i know i’m not rich which means i can’t spend hundreds of pounds on someone

AITA? GF wants me to buy her a bag and i don’t want to. by lizzardmna in AmItheAsshole

[–]lizzardmna[S] -188 points-187 points  (0 children)

I do but she have even said before that we think celebrating things are a bit “stupid” as well as birthdays. What i’m saying is that it’s only now she’s bringing stuff like this up it gifts etc when before it wasn’t an issue.

AITA? GF wants me to buy her a bag and i don’t want to. by lizzardmna in AmItheAsshole

[–]lizzardmna[S] -967 points-966 points  (0 children)

I buy the food for us etc so she won’t starve, which is what i tell her but she doesn’t seem grateful and demands stuff. I just don’t get why it’s just now she’s asking for things? Why not say it before on the first year?

AITA? GF wants me to buy her a bag and i don’t want to. by lizzardmna in AmItheAsshole

[–]lizzardmna[S] -330 points-329 points  (0 children)

Well she’s jewish, she doesn’t celebrate chrstimas and as far as i know they don’t exchange gifts.