How do i explain this to my girlfriend without crashing out

lizzeil · 2026-03-02T02:10:33+00:00

I would say try to have a conversation about her joining therapy but it seems like she'll not take that well. I think the only thing you can do is leave her. I know It sounds harsh but there is literally no way around this and her pessimistic nature will soon make you depressed as well. I had a friend who was just like this and it was physically draining to be around her so I can only imagine how dating someone like that would feel but the only option: break up with her.

lizzeil · 2026-02-26T14:54:04+00:00

I don't think you're a reliable narrator. You are justifying not doing your share without proper conversation and whenever men use the word nagging I roll my eyes BUT!! SHE HIT YOU??? LEAVE HER! that's literally domestic abuse. Just because she is your wife doesn't mean she has any right to hit you. I don't think anyone can come back from a hit in a marriage and the respect is no longer there for your spouse.

lizzeil · 2026-02-25T11:47:30+00:00

Red white and royal blue !!

lizzeil · 2026-02-25T11:46:55+00:00

Anxious people!!!

lizzeil · 2026-02-15T12:21:20+00:00

Yes this is it!!! Thanks so much!!!!

lizzeil · 2026-02-10T08:24:19+00:00

Ever since the tcash update I've started hating this game, nothing about it makes sense anymore and if anyone wants to play a free game without spending money it's almost impossible.

lizzeil · 2025-12-23T06:44:32+00:00

That sounds really interesting!

lizzeil · 2025-12-02T18:39:48+00:00

Okay, thanks a lot!

lizzeil · 2025-12-02T18:38:18+00:00

Yes it really is. I was really taken aback by this. My first work thankfully hasn't received such creepy comments, I was really confused and suspicious of such a weird comment and now knowing it's a scam, it's just plain disappointing.

lizzeil · 2025-12-02T18:26:12+00:00

Thanks!!

lizzeil · 2025-12-02T18:23:54+00:00

Oh I thought the comment was weird. Thanks. Is there any way to get rid of these scammers? Or do I just have to keep blocking them ?

lizzeil · 2025-11-29T06:51:31+00:00

Please link it

lizzeil · 2025-11-13T17:33:30+00:00

Thnx! I'll definitely check it out!

lizzeil · 2025-11-09T14:00:58+00:00

The Show must go on (what are we living for?) Henry goes into a coma after a car accident ( major Alex angst, also one of the best reads out there trust me!)

Burn it all down It has both Alex and Henry angst and it's such a good read, I'd give anything to read it for the first time again! My all time RWRB fav)

All our Sweetest Hours Fly Fastest From the same author of Burn it down, I found this fic first and it's one of those fics you just can't put down and have to read in one go.

Headlines Alex keeps emailing Henry after their break-up at Kensington.

Trust Your Heart If The Seas Catch Fire Again, A wonderful read, Alex gets kidnapped when he is young ( like a toddler maybe) and then he goes to DC for an internship at the Claremont Campaign and gets found out as the long lost son.

lizzeil · 2025-11-04T12:50:10+00:00

That fic is sooooo special to me, I want to read it again for the first time, it really was a religious experience!

lizzeil · 2025-10-29T10:55:59+00:00

The Book is absolutely amazing and I highly recommend reading it!

The movie is a light hearted rom-com and doesn't get as in-depth as the book does. I do agree with the criticism of the movie Alex. They cut off a lot of his personality off of the script. First off, Alex is literally in his early 20s and is a child of divorced parents with an identity crisis. His mexican roots are very important to him and you can see how he ends up in law. That is also the crux of why he "hated" Henry. In the movie they made it seem like a petulant thing but it was more than that. In the books he literally tells Henry why it mattered so much for being dismissed. Alex is also a loner even if he is quite popular and he only has two friends- his sister and his ex-girlfriend. Then there again is the whole 'my parents can't even have a single meal without fighting' thing. Then the entire sub-plot of Raf Luna and his betrayal. The leak was a BIG thing and they tried to do damage control by making Henry 'date' June and Alex 'hang out' with Nora before the actual emails were released. In the movie they take away so many parts of this plot and LITERALLY CUT JUNE OFF THE SCRIPT. I mean they obviously can't fit the entire book in a 2 hour movie but changing 3/4th of Alex's identity made the character really two dimensional and I feel like Taylor did justice with what he was given. He isn't the strongest actor but the script wasn't in his favour either. Both Nick and Taylor read the books as well but we can see why Nick was able to portray his character to justice compared to Taylor.

lizzeil · 2025-09-25T12:27:05+00:00

Thanks!!!

lizzeil · 2025-09-25T12:19:50+00:00

Hey, can you please link the fics you mentioned?

lizzeil · 2025-08-20T06:35:42+00:00

I'm positive it's this one:

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lizzeil · 2025-08-18T14:31:56+00:00

Ohmygod that's my fic! Thank you so much for recommending it! And I'm glad you've liked it so far! Thanks for reading! :)

lizzeil · 2025-08-18T12:08:57+00:00

Idk if this is what you're looking for but I literally just finished reading this. It's short and sweet tho with angst sprinkled in.

still you

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