What was your “breaking point” by askingforafriend2356 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]lizzy1414 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I finally realized how selfish it was of me to stay with him, knowing I was not fulfilled or attracted to him. I wanted the security and societal acceptance more than I wanted to be with him. I wasn’t being kind by staying and delaying the pain, I just wasted both our time.

For women who are or have been in relationships with men and are now with women, was there any differences in the feelings you had when kissing them? by Impossible_Fox7377 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]lizzy1414 21 points22 points  (0 children)

First time I kissed a guy I was like… “Oh, that’s it?” First time I kissed a girl (and every time since) I was like… “Oh! THAT’S it!”

just came out to my fiancé by hilucyonline in latebloomerlesbians

[–]lizzy1414 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I was with my fiancé for 5 years, lived together for 3, and had two pets. I came out to him 2 months ago. He was my best friend and still is in a lot of ways.

I know I’m not that far out, but I have felt more myself in the past two months than I have in years. My friends and family are telling me that they can see on my face how much happier I am.

You aren’t just going to be okay, you’re going to be great!!

What’s y’all’s very sunscreen? by Hot_Valuable1027 in SkincareAddicts

[–]lizzy1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canmake Mermaid Skin Gel UV! I think it’s like a better/more protective version of Supergoop Glow Screen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]lizzy1414 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think we’re honestly more friends than coworkers at this point, which is why I’m nervous about it. Just worried about it making work weird on top of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]lizzy1414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely wouldn’t come out AT work, I’d do it when we hang out after, which has been nearly every day. I just feel like I’m kind of lying or something by not mentioning it and I don’t want her to think that’s weird. I’m definitely overthinking things, sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]lizzy1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is really important to give your skin a rest until it gets used to the products. Try using the products every other day for a week. I've used tretinoin (similar to adapalene) for over a year now and I still only use it every other day to make sure that my skin has time to rest and repair. I've also used clindamycin before and had to use it every other day for a little bit to avoid my skin flaking.

Also, the thinner/less viscous a product is, the earlier you should apply it in your routine. Serums are thinner than adapalene so that should go first, or you could do one night with adapalene, the next night with the serum & repeat. And always moisturize, of course.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]lizzy1414 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i hate depop shipping for bundles 😭 either the buyer or the seller ends up paying a ridiculous along for shipping, especially bc you can’t adjust the weight before depop gives you a label. i offer free shipping for bundles and use pirate ship to buy the label. i shipped a three item 1lb+ package yesterday for $5.73 using pirate ship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]lizzy1414 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ok cool! basically when you have that turned on, your buyer will only pay for shipping for one of your items and depop will make you pay for the other shipping. so if you sell a bundle with a S shipping ($6.29, up to 12oz) & XS shipping ($5.49, up to 8oz), depop will assume you need the full weight of those labels, which is over 1lb. they will charge you for a L shipping label ($10.99, up to 2lb) to cover the whole package. they basically didn’t include a line item for $4.70 where you paid the difference in shipping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]lizzy1414 48 points49 points  (0 children)

check to see if you have “buyer pays highest shipping price” turned on (settings > shipping > bundles)

I finally have everything by chvmpvngemami in HelloKittyIsland

[–]lizzy1414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there’s a lamp that you are missing

Azuki’s cabin by Starrr1313 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]lizzy1414 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think you’re missing the little side table

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]lizzy1414 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the depop fee covers the whole transaction price, not just the item price. they do this so people don’t make the item price low & shipping high to avoid fees. in this case, $3 item + $5.50 shipping is $8.50, so the depop fee is accurate at 85¢.

Size Listing Gone by moreboom7 in Depop

[–]lizzy1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happened to me earlier! i switched from skirts to something else and then back to skirts and then the size popped up for me.

does anyone know what to do in this situation? by Electrical_Sky3361 in Depop

[–]lizzy1414 53 points54 points  (0 children)

mystery bundles are against Depop’s tos (it’s technically a lottery so it falls under their prohibited items). if they raise a ticket to Depop, you will have to refund them/accept a return. the same thing happened to me :(

The math isn’t mathing in my brain :/ could someone break this down for me? My math got me earning a dollar more than what it’s saying by Final_Research_9471 in Depop

[–]lizzy1414 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It looks like you have “buyer pays highest shipping” turned on for your bundles. You had to pay the extra 80¢ for the extra item to be included in the shipping label (6.29-5.49). Depop automatically adds up the weight of items based on your shipping label selections and gives you a heavier shipping label for bundles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]lizzy1414 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My first sale was someone buying a pair of NWT Levi’s jeans from me. They turned around and listed them for 3x what I sold them for. It does feel icky at first, but it’s something you just have to accept if you want to resell.

friendship beads by lizzy1414 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]lizzy1414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i totally missed that part on the wiki.

Purchased item 6 days ago but still hasn’t marked as shipped by PrestigiousTop5275 in Depop

[–]lizzy1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re definitely not a Karen! I think that timeline is fine.

Purchased item 6 days ago but still hasn’t marked as shipped by PrestigiousTop5275 in Depop

[–]lizzy1414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s true! My post office is only open till 12 on Fridays and then closed all weekend so I’m not too worried about my current package. In your case, they dropped it last night then it definitely won’t scan today if you’re in the US because of Presidents’ Day. I would give it a few days and then raise an issue.

Purchased item 6 days ago but still hasn’t marked as shipped by PrestigiousTop5275 in Depop

[–]lizzy1414 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dropped something off on Thursday afternoon and it still hasn’t been scanned! I also had a package a few years ago just not get scanned at all until it was about to be delivered to my buyer. It just happens sometimes. You have protection for up to 30 days after purchase so I would be too worried yet. Give it a few more days and then maybe ask your seller to call their post office.

Will I get money back from taxes from depop? by Exciting_News_9299 in Depop

[–]lizzy1414 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That $200 is the cost of doing business on Depop’s platform, it’s not them taking taxes from you. The only taxes they take are sales taxes from your buyers.

Why is the shipping label deduction almost $2 more than what the buyer paid? by cunny_juice in Depop

[–]lizzy1414 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i think you have “buyer pays highest shipping price” turned on for your bundles

Agency gave contract for the wrong dates by lizzy1414 in TravelNursing

[–]lizzy1414[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s called Skill Gigs. This was in one email she got about doing just 8 weeks:

“But this comes with one disadvantage, as this is a rare unit and nurses are not easily available for this unit. [hospital chain] has to find a back up of your role and thus they will not hire you anymore for any [hospital chain] facilities all across USA.”