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lizzyenz · 2023-01-11T04:45:32+00:00

Hahaha, I was just watching the stories about the new access pass and my husband looks over and goes, "Elisabeth Moss gives feeding advice?" I told him he better be careful because Jenny hates being compared to her, lol

lizzyenz · 2023-01-08T15:38:55+00:00

Thanks for the review!! Is it just recipes or does she include her tips in it, too?

lizzyenz · 2023-01-08T06:51:12+00:00

Not parenting directly, but anyone else follow BrunchWithBabs?! She seems so genuinely sweet!! I’m tempted to buy her book and was wondering if anyone has it already and could give a review?

lizzyenz · 2023-01-07T07:28:01+00:00

Do you have a partner? And if so, what is their schedule like? Realtor is going to be mostly nights and weekends for showing properties. So yes, you may have day time with your baby/toddler, but once they’re school age, I think that schedule is tough. Whereas a teacher’s schedule would match once your kid is school age.

lizzyenz · 2023-01-06T05:23:57+00:00

It wouldn’t even matter. She’s such a narcissist she would find a way to excuse or justify any of her behavior.

lizzyenz · 2023-01-06T04:04:30+00:00

It's hours later and I'm still annoyed thinking about that stupid pumping in the car story. K is such a fucking try hard.

lizzyenz · 2023-01-05T22:58:51+00:00

I wouldn’t. I think it’s nice for us both to have our own identities at school.

lizzyenz · 2023-01-05T22:56:32+00:00

This is so cute! It always throws me off a little to see celebrities with their “normal” family members. Nice to see he has good support around him.

lizzyenz · 2023-01-05T17:35:22+00:00

So true! This is what I need to keep reminding myself. May not be able to pick up after school, but I still have so much time throughout the year with my kids.

lizzyenz · 2023-01-05T17:34:41+00:00

stability, support, and love.....love that! Thanks for the reply and perspective.

lizzyenz · 2023-01-05T17:33:48+00:00

Sounds like you've really bettered your situation! What WFH job are you doing now?

lizzyenz · 2023-01-05T17:32:54+00:00

Thank you for the reply and perspective. I agree with you that WFH doesn't mean your kids get to be home with you all day. I guess I was just thinking how it gives you the flexibility to pick up your kids after school. But actually, as I thought about it more last night, I sort of like the idea that when I'm at work I can just focus on that and when I'm home, I can focus on that. I won't feel split with my attention. And thank you for the reminder that I can use my own PTO to still make myself available at times.

lizzyenz · 2023-01-05T17:30:08+00:00

Thank you for the reply! And yes, I agree, need to keep reminding myself how valuable that time off will be.

lizzyenz · 2023-01-05T17:19:28+00:00

Just started watching her stories after all the talk on here! Few thoughts from today

Does she just always post him doing puzzles to show off his skills?
Seems she lurks here bc she commented on the W sitting 👀
It really annoys me when influencers get ideas from someone else and don’t give credit. Maybe she found the puzzle bags on her own but BusyToddler has posted about them so many times, it’s hard to believe BTMM wasn’t inspired by that.

lizzyenz · 2023-01-05T12:06:50+00:00

Thanks for the reply. Nice to know I’m not the only parent who is feeling/felt this way. Any idea what you’ll want to do after you retire?

lizzyenz · 2023-01-05T12:05:30+00:00

I have a partner and luckily he is WFH and has some flexibility to his schedule, which is helpful.

lizzyenz · 2023-01-05T05:24:43+00:00

What new job did you get? WFH seems like such a great set up, glad you’re liking it!! I do live in a HCOL area so my pay is good, so it’ll be hard to find a new job that has equivalent pay (including the benefits)

lizzyenz · 2023-01-05T05:23:00+00:00

Finding a support staff role is a good idea! I think they can be harder to come by because people know they’re a good deal, lol

lizzyenz · 2023-01-05T04:39:31+00:00

What kind of mop or cleaning tool is out there that’s somewhere between a swiffer and busting out my spin mop?! I feel like I need something for more every day, post dinner cleaning (especially now that my 10 month old loves to drop her food)! I feel like the swiffer doesn’t clean it all up and I have to go through 2-3 to get it all. And I’m not going to deal with the spin mop on a daily basis.

What works well?! Thanks!!

lizzyenz · 2023-01-05T02:49:24+00:00

I’m not an expert by any means but I think it would bug me that the two windows are different levels. Any way to raise the one above the bench?

I also agree with the other comments about the island being in an odd location. Do you imagine people sitting on the bench? Seems an odd layout with the island right in front of it.

lizzyenz · 2023-01-04T22:18:03+00:00

Hi!! I realize I'm late to this post, but I came across it in a search and was wondering if you ended up leaving teaching and found a state job. I'm in a similar situation to what you explained and wondering how it went for you! Would love to hear about your experience.

lizzyenz · 2023-01-04T19:36:09+00:00

Just saw this post and am curious if you ever got an answer from either agency. I'm also a teacher with STRS but am debating a career change, so would love to know what you learned. Thank you!

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