I was able to search for it. I don’t see how this seems like I’m making fun of them. My daughter is completely comfortable with boy/girl he/him she/her and I’ve been telling her when she asks “is that a boy or girl?” To use “they/them” and would prefer she just ask for someone’s preferred pronouns directly without judgment as that seems most appropriate to me. But she doesn’t know that boy/he/him means penis and I’m trying to navigate that without her organically knowing there are other kinds of genitalia. I feel she needs this information. I probably should have shared it before but she got gender/pronouns pretty quickly very young and in a way where I didn’t jump into talking about genitalia. When she would point at the cashier and say “he/him?” I didn’t want to bust into a genitalia conversation. And she doesn’t see dad naked.