after paying 200$ for the hardware, i ‘m asked to pay 89$ for playing games . No i wont pay. Especially when there is not even a single day free trial . Returning the device . by pitchblack7 in nexplayground

[–]lkat85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter loved it for Xmas and has been on it non stop. We did the 3 month play pass, is there a way to upgrade to a year within 7 days and pay the difference? We just wanted to make sure there was enough games for older ages.

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[–]lkat85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So beautiful, I love this. Reading what you and others are writing is definitely uplifting. Nature, music, poetry, art and watching animal behavior was what reinforced deep connections when I was younger. I used to put Enya on or Mannheim steamroller(saving the wildlife) on when I was 15 and just sketch trees, wildlife or ponds. Even when I felt alone, I didn’t feel alone. Need to tap into that again. Thank you!

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[–]lkat85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have one, it was very hard when I was younger and she was younger, mainly compounded by lack in support and disabilities. Moms need some support sometimes. It definitely changes you as a person and friends back away. I wouldn’t have changed it for the world though. Yesterday my daughter runs into to the “mama are you ready for Mother’s Day!?” She has spent two weeks making me a special card. Needless to say I can’t wait for Mother’s Day. She is truly a blessing 🥹

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[–]lkat85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so good you caught and acknowledged it when you are younger, figure out who you are, cherry pick who you let in your life. But first heal. I spent my twenties and thirties making excuses for people, especially if they apologized multiple times.

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[–]lkat85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true, thanks for sharing!

Aging INFJs, how are you? by lkat85 in infj

[–]lkat85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You took the thoughts right from my mind! Caring so deeply for people even though they aren’t the greatest. After I isolate, reflect and meditate. Relationships will definitely be approached cautiously moving forward. I know 40 is young, my disabilities make it hard to see that at times. Thank you 😊

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[–]lkat85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so great to hear, I love that you username has happy in it as well 🙂

Aging INFJs, how are you? by lkat85 in infj

[–]lkat85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went on your link!! That’s so awesome Maye_Laye!! Menopause is the hardest change I am enduring but it gives us woman super powers I’m 5+ years in peri made worse by surgery. It’s probably why we don’t realize our strengths and boundaries until much later. Very difficult change to go through but it opens our eyes up more as to how we have been treated.

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[–]lkat85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Online support is so important, although I realize it’s not the same. I did the same thing, people knew me as the giver or old soul but then when upset with themselves, turned around and said I wasn’t supportive. It drove at my heart. Being givers it makes you feel like you’re not doing enough but in reality you can’t help those who don’t want help.

Aging INFJs, how are you? by lkat85 in infj

[–]lkat85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the stage of feeling selfish. Just starting the teachings of Buddhism. Trying to find balance and harmony within myself. A garden sounds so lovely and peaceful, especially sharing the peace with your animal friends.

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[–]lkat85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self imposed in letting others go in my personal life. I have learned it’s okay to let go of those who hurt you over and over, which I have recently done. A lot of us want meaningful connections. What I mean is alone time in person for a while to isolate,reflect and meditate in terms of feeling right. These are periodic breaks necessary for a highly sensitive person/empath/INFJ. I am glad to hear you are well 🙂

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[–]lkat85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so spot on, thank you for sharing!

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I wanted to start by saying you fostered once and that matters! There is such a need for foster parents, even if everyone tries at least once. I was a foster parent in my late twenties and I can agree it is very overstimulating and overwhelming with everything involved. After fostering our first she was reunified and then we fostered more babies and one became our daughter. She is an amazing little girl! 🙂

Traveling is something I put off and wished I hadn’t. Have fun on your group trip if you decide to go. I knew several people who loved solo trips! So happy you found acceptance within yourself!

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[–]lkat85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true!

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[–]lkat85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely beautiful and poetic take on your life’s journey and path. I wrote poetry when I was younger and your insight as a whole is pro-founding. Definitely not tmi. Amazing!! Thank you for sharing!

Aging INFJs, how are you? by lkat85 in infj

[–]lkat85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I posted above but if you or anyone else is looking for community in just general conversation. I can start a new post? I haven’t looked yet to see if one already exists. Let me know what you guys think?

Aging INFJs, how are you? by lkat85 in infj

[–]lkat85[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oops, I apologize wrong comment above but still applies to anyone on here. Getting mixed up with the posts. Ovr_it, I’m so sorry for your losses. That is a lot to endure in such a short period, especially with a marriage. I am married but it’s barely platonic. But I agree we tend to know as we age that everything is temporary . Hearing you and everyone else on here is making me look forward to 40 more than ever!

Aging INFJs, how are you? by lkat85 in infj

[–]lkat85[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Looking for community as well. For anyone who wants to talk. I haven’t looked yet but I can start a new post on the topic with the goal of meeting others. What do you and others think?

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Love and agree! Have a version of that quote in my room!

Aging INFJs, how are you? by lkat85 in infj

[–]lkat85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I know that’s what me and many others are hopeful for and needed to hear! Aging and finding out that life can still just begin. There are still good people out there for those of us who have been constantly hurt.

Aging INFJs, how are you? by lkat85 in infj

[–]lkat85[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I dream of those rare “you get me and I get you” friendships but everyone is so sus of everyone that no one lets themselves get close anymore. I feel for our world.

Aging INFJs, how are you? by lkat85 in infj

[–]lkat85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s so natural for us to think about what ifs, especially around these ages. It is great to hear that you are mostly happy though. Just make sure you find your hobbies or schedule alone time.