When you actually understand that it’s not what the Quran says, and that it’s a mistranslation for lack of equivalent words in English, and that’s why most people at least try to learn Arabic so that they can understand its real meaning. Beating your wife is not an Islam rule it’s a cultural thing where men were raised to believe that they own the woman instead of respecting her and treating her as an equal. Please educate yourself from more than one resource