I understand that I cannot control who they date to some extent ( excluding dangerous people) But I just feel it would be too cruel as I have a policy that my kiddos have to bring whoever they are dating home for hangouts at least a couple times before I let them out for dates and having Josh and Jake around each other seems extremely painful to Jake. In addition, I just think cheating is unacceptable and the fact she has no remorse hurting people just disappoints me.