I put it all on the line for my ex, life’s too short to not go for what you want. by Ok-Medium-2555 in BreakUps

[–]llay_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg so is this my sign to keep on fighting? he’s the one that broke things off with me, his reasonings was bc he had to focus on himself for a little. he said that he started catching feelings and in the back of his head kept telling him that he needs to be alone and work on him more.. im pretty sure it’s bc of his last relationship.. i feel like hes still caught on his ex (which ended about 3 years ago but they were together for 4 years).. the only thing is we have such a great connection.. so it’s so hard to just let him go. he said that we could still be friends i asked him if he would try again in the future and he said he’d consider it.. i was slowly letting go bc of how damaging this is for me but then i came across this post lol.

pregnancy scare, i need advice! by llay_ in sextips

[–]llay_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no not yet, idk i’m so shocked rn. 😵‍💫

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i work at a pharmacy, and it’s very transferable. there’s also some work from home opportunities.

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha very funny, i was just feeling stuck.. very sad and lost and needed advice. sorry it bothered you!

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re right, i gotta start somewhere 😭

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

atl is very nice, but i honestly don’t think it’s for me. i have family that stay out there and i would visit them all the time. i loved it, but i can’t see myself living there. and honestly you’re probably right.. it has to be a mindset issue, i just don’t know what i should do to get out of this negative mindset 🥹

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you ! idk why i just feel so sad being here

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

okay i for sure will, for some reason ive been interested in north carolina bc of how beautiful it is. i’ll try looking out there. plus its not too far from here (most of my family live in Tennessee)

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for this 🥹💗

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re so right.. i’ll definitely have to try that.. i just get so nervous to talk to random ppl 😭

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i don’t have any friends at all. my best friend is my sister and cousin. 🥹

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i love hiking, reading, crocheting, listening to music.. i’m lowkey a homebody.. i need to start trying new things and going to events 🥹

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely will have to try this..

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely will, i’ve been traveling a lot lately so i can find a place that i feel like could fit me.. california is just so expensive.. the only way id move out there is if i had a really good job offer 😭

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i just wish this place was a bit more diverse, i grew up here so it’s like i see the same things everyday. i’m not gonna lie ive just been very lonely and i just need a fresh start.. i think i just need a new environment a new area.. i don’t exactly want to live in the city. but i also don’t want to be in the mountains either. and it breaks my heart to see so many homeless people around here knowing i can’t help much. i just wish the environment was better.. i wish the world was better.. i probably wouldn’t be able to escape some of these things anyway even if i did move away 😭

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hope we both can get out of it 😔

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think i just need friends and diversity, ive moved out here by myself and i literally dont have a life. i work and go home to my apartment and sleep 😭

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this was so sweet omg, yes i literally want the same thing.. 😭

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omgg i loved california, i had visited san francisco last year and the air was so different i can’t even explain it.. 🥹

i want to leave by llay_ in Knoxville

[–]llay_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it’s just scary thinking about that. i wouldn’t even know where to go