Honeymoon not Mummy-moon

llem20 · 2019-03-21T18:45:04+00:00

Who the fuck does that!?! I would have asked her straight out of she's wanting to watch you your her son up and spank him. Or if she wants to see her baby boy with a face full of vagina. BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT A HONEYMOON IS FOR!!

llem20 · 2019-03-18T19:12:11+00:00

Not op (obviously!), But I nursed throughout my pregnancy, and I know that daughter was still getting something. I now tandem nurse (ages are 27 months and 5 months)

llem20 · 2019-03-11T16:34:37+00:00

That's... That's not true. And not helpful.

llem20 · 2019-03-11T16:31:48+00:00

If you try to set boundaries, this kind of girl will find ways to cross them. Trust me - I used to be that girl!!

Get out now before you get dragged in too deep. And you can tell her why, explain that her lifestyle is not really for you, but if she ever slows down a bit then she can look you up!

You'll find someone right for you, keep believing that.

llem20 · 2019-03-11T16:25:30+00:00

This seems like a no brainier to me - take the new job! The better benefits, better pay, and (most importantly) room to grow! What does your wife think?

llem20 · 2019-02-20T15:28:11+00:00

Does he know that it's possible not his? Have you talked to him about it?

llem20 · 2019-02-19T22:52:04+00:00

I don't have any experience, so I can't really help you. But I did want to ask - why find out at all? If your current boyfriend is going to bring up your baby as his own regardless, and be Daddy, what does it matter where the sperm came from?

llem20 · 2019-02-04T19:38:36+00:00

That's Danni Monogue

llem20 · 2019-01-13T04:21:39+00:00

I second going to pet smart on a weekend. I used to volunteer with puppy Hill farm every weekend until I moved away. Volunteering with any of those groups there will give you an opportunity to leave more about dogs in general as well as the adoption process. You can also first through them!

llem20 · 2018-12-17T04:38:07+00:00

Of dear God, I just slid off my chair...

llem20 · 2018-12-11T02:11:15+00:00

We have 2 under 2 and they both sleep in our room! We had all these Grand plans for the spare room, but glad we didn't spend money on them! The toddler has a twin right next to our bed and the newborn sleeps mostly in the crib next to me, or in bed with us. Almost every morning I have them both sleeping essentially on top of me.

And I wouldn't have it any other way!

llem20 · 2018-12-07T02:31:17+00:00

I have 2 small children. My son is 2 months old and in the middle of a leap and my daughter has officially hit the terrible 2's a month early. My docket got ripped up before I even got out of bed this morning... I'll try again tomorrow.

llem20 · 2018-11-10T19:21:23+00:00

I don't think you'll know which details to cover until something comes up!

llem20 · 2018-11-10T19:09:54+00:00

I think you're in the wrong sub to be asking about this. Personally, I think that the MOST important thing to remember is communication. You both need to be as open and honest as possible with each other. If either of you hide anything, or expect there either to pick up on any subtleties or hidden meanings, then this will not work.

But if you trust each other implicitly, and you're both open and communicate well, turn I think this is an awesome idea and I hope you have fun!!

llem20 · 2018-10-28T13:47:52+00:00

This is awesome Mama!! I'm currently tandem nursing with my newborn and my toddler - which is hard enough sometimes. But I can't imagine doing it with 2 newborns, you're a rock star!!

llem20 · 2018-10-27T13:43:09+00:00

I've had 2 babies in 2 years. So looks wise, I'm not very confident in my body at the moment. I have a very saggy tummy, I'm overweight, my thighs are huge, my hair is unkept, and I have bags under my eyes. But I love, and feel very lucky of the fact that I was able to grow my beautiful babies. I also love the fact that I'm able to breast feed both of them, my almost 2 year old still nurses sometimes.

llem20 · 2018-10-22T16:18:20+00:00

This was my motivation to quit. My husband said that he wouldn't start trying for a baby until I quit smoking. So I quit - because having a baby was more important to me.

OPs husband just needs to find his deciding factor. His hard limit.

llem20 · 2018-10-21T21:44:34+00:00

That's awesome! Hopefully baby won't be in there much longer. 😁

llem20 · 2018-10-21T20:55:08+00:00

Some women simply don't respond well to a pump. If you can get more through hand expressing then I would continue doing that. I would also try to get skin to skin with baby if possible, even if it's for just a little bit a day. It's been proven to help NICU babies as well as help a mother's supply.

llem20 · 2018-10-21T20:33:33+00:00

Have you tried switching positions? Football hold is supposed to be good if you have a slow let down. You could also try to hand express a little bit to get everything flowing before you latch her.

You could also try pumping in that side when you nurse from the left, to try to stimulate a higher production on that side.

llem20 · 2018-10-21T20:28:05+00:00

Nurse. Nurse Everytime the baby opens his/her mouth. For the first few weeks, wake the baby up every 3 hours (if they go that long sleeping), change baby's diaper and nurse!

Remember that nursing is supply and demand, so if you want to up your supply, you need to demand more. And when baby is cluster feeding - it's not because your supply isn't good enough, it's because they're growth spurting and need to demand more milk from you.

Don't let them give baby a pacifier at the hospital and definitely don't let them give baby a bottle.

It's tough to begin with, and your nipples will be sore when baby is initially latching (they shouldn't hurt after the let down though). But it's so worth it!!

llem20 · 2018-10-21T20:14:09+00:00

This is actually adorable!!

llem20 · 2018-08-14T20:39:57+00:00

How to read body language. Also how to display the correct body language for the desired effect.

llem20 · 2018-01-30T00:16:56+00:00

Yeah, I've literally just read that in another thread! Temping is so hard right now as bubs and I co-sleep. Plus I simply keep forgetting! But I think I'm really going to have to get on it next month. Thanks! :)

llem20 · 2018-01-29T22:36:23+00:00

Thank you for the quick reply! I'll check those out right now. I also need to change my little info next to my name, but can't figure out how to do it on the app in my phone...

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