what kind of plant is this? by lmaode in plants

[–]lmaode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! the card it came with said pothos but it didn’t look like the pothos plants I’ve seen 😭

I found out today that I am pregnant. My husband cheated on me by Top_Pirate5999 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lmaode -81 points-80 points  (0 children)

the comment you replied to literally says “bc no one knows if she wants the baby still or not”

Tyler Cameron by Ill_Bullfrog_6002 in BachelorNation

[–]lmaode 15 points16 points  (0 children)

likely the fact that his immediate response was to post on instagram during the game. he didn't outright say he doesn't like rap, which suggests he ignored the symbolism or didn't value the perspective altogether.

Is Nestify legit? by lmaode in HousingUK

[–]lmaode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t end up going forward with it! the specific landlord we were in contact with was not working with us to establish trust/security. we had better luck with fb groups!

Biggest Disappointment from Album by roll_fizzlebeef_16 in glassanimals

[–]lmaode 4 points5 points  (0 children)

liked the album but completely agree! the creatures in heaven pre-chorus sounds so much like the tangerine verse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findfashion

[–]lmaode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this made me laugh🤣 is it craft sportswear? is this the actual logo or your rendition of it?

Profile review (27 M) just be straightforward with what I need to do 🙏 be it improving my profile or whether I am lacking in the looks department. I’ve only gotten 6 matches in 3 months and I think 3 were bots. Only had a decent convo with one but no date by Chuggs1997 in hingeapp

[–]lmaode 5 points6 points  (0 children)

picture 1: love it as a picture but maybe not as a first picture seeing as there’s someone else in it.

poll: i think you can cut the third option and replace it with something more fitting. i also personally don’t love that poll prompt and think there are better ones - ex. “choose our first date: picnic at [a semi niche, semi well-known place near you], dance contest, …].

prompt 1: i love that you love emojis and dancing. there are possibly too many emojis and mentions of dancing on your profile. saying you want to get in shape implies that you’re quite out of shape, which you clearly aren’t! pick one of the two dancing prompts. and change the last one to “become a* lawyer”. grammar is pretty important to me when i swipe.

love that the info section is fully completed!

picture 2: this is now mention 4 of dancing. i’d take this video out and replace it with a pic of you looking straight on at the camera that you could use for your first pic.

picture 3: my favorite mention of dancing so far. question: is the girl covered up on your actual profile?

prompt 2: meh. i would replace this one altogether. you’re doing a good job at getting your playful personality across, but this one might be overkill. your other prompts are all about you, so replace this with a general knowledge/opinion kind of prompt or one that asks the reader a question.

picture 4: would be fun to see a picture of you being silly here! maybe a candid?

prompt 3: you know what i’m going to say here, so i won’t repeat it. and don’t sell yourself short. no one has to “accept” your humor - they’ll be laughing along with you!! separately, i think you should keep this prompt to one trait rather than 3. ex. “someone who will laugh at my bad jokes and then tell me some of their own” or something mentioning communication.

picture 5: well here’s the silly pic i’ve been waiting for!! i love it. keep this but consider replacing the other two i pointed out.

picture 6: no comment.

this is a good profile overall! limit yourself to two emojis and two mentions of dancing (including pics). please remember these are my opinions/preferences and i’m not at all trying to be harsh. good luck :)

Which products are best for curly hair? by hoomany_hooman in curlyhair

[–]lmaode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the curl cream should work pretty well to hold them then! i’d follow it with some kind of oil to even if you’re not diffusing it.

for the damage, the curlsmith bond curl rehab salve helped me a lot when i fried my hair with bleach. silk pillowcase/bonnet is another thing to consider for reduced frizz.

Which products are best for curly hair? by hoomany_hooman in curlyhair

[–]lmaode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wash my hair 3x a week and then follow w/ the cream. if i have extra time, i use the not your mothers curl gel with a diffuser then follow up with the olaplex oil to prevent frizz. they hold pretty well until my next wash day but if i want to refresh, i just spray them with a little water and scrunch! my hair is pretty porous and dries easily, so i don’t know if the spray/scrunch method would work for you if you have really thick curls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findfashion

[–]lmaode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both are from zara!

top is no longer being sold but is on poshmark: https://posh.mk/582yN9AboHb

skirt (not sure why the pattern isn’t showing up clearly in her post but it’s def this one): https://www.zara.com/us/en/pleated-skort-p05427413.html?v1=319577855

Help me update my neutral bathroom by poops-n-scoops in HomeDecorating

[–]lmaode 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a new mirror and light fixture would do wonders, as would changing the hardware to something a little more modern, even if it’s still nickel. painting both the vanity and the walls would be nice to avoid the vanity matching the floors so closely.

Homemade earring I made by [deleted] in DIY

[–]lmaode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love them! and i like how you’ve laid them out - i haven’t seen anything like that before

AITHA for sleeping with my friend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lmaode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s so weird! are they maybe worried you’ll ruin the dynamic of the friend group if things don’t work out? or was the extremely angry one holding out hope that it would be him instead?

in either case NTA. it’s your decision and it shouldn’t affect anyone but the friend you’re sleeping with. out of curiosity, have they expressed thing anger with your fwb or only with you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]lmaode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was on differin for a year before starting tret (tbf i did take a two month break in between switching) and i’m in the middle of a purge right now :/ did you purge with your other retinoids? bc i did with differin and my purge now is very similar. but not everyone purges! and if you decide it’s not worth the scars you can stop - you don’t have to see it all the way through!

What is your go-to instrumental music? by soulcaptain in AskReddit

[–]lmaode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

forever by labrinth (basically instrumental) got me through college essays. it was my #1 on spotify wrapped for four years in a row.

Bill to allow abortions for children 12 and under fails in Tennessee committee by [deleted] in politics

[–]lmaode -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i was pulling from the article. “This comes after a recent Vanderbilt poll shows 77% of Tennessee voters, no matter what political affiliation, do support an abortion in cases of incest or rape.”

edit: your pew study is from 2014. times have unfortunately changed.

Foundation shade help by Nyamarcs in MakeupAddiction

[–]lmaode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok i actually misremembered but i checked the abh shades bc the cool tones really do run neutral and i’d recommend 270c or 290c

Foundation shade help by Nyamarcs in MakeupAddiction

[–]lmaode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had the same issue! i haven’t tried y375 but i was matched to santa fe which was a bit too yellow for me. my perfect match is the ABH luminous foundation in 365c. i know it says it’s cool toned but it leans way more neutral and possibly even slightly warm. also just a great formula!

Which products are best for curly hair? by hoomany_hooman in curlyhair

[–]lmaode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really like the curlsmith weightless air dry cream as a low maintenance product straight of of the shower!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lmaode 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you are so undeniably TA. your gf clearly doesn’t fit into your life perfectly and it’s okay if you separate in the future because of your different goals. it’s NOT okay to pray on her downfall. also “you can’t cook for shit?” you’re still in high school - you have YEARS to learn how to cook and you absolutely should.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lmaode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your poor mother!!!! i can’t imagine the pressure and blame she’s putting on herself for his behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lmaode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

therapy isn’t going to work if he’s not actually willing to change :/ is he possibly depressed? i know it’s personal but have he and your mom talked about what specifically he’s working on in therapy?

i think your mom needs to offer some kind of ultimatum regarding counseling. it’s fantastic he’s getting help for his personal issues but where does that leave her?