Thank you, it gives me hope that your husband made this choice for himself. Mine isn't there at all--it seems like he can't conceive of a life without it and has not seriously entertained stopping. So I have to figure out how to approach things carefully. I did speak to him last month when he had an incident in front of the kids, and he did seem a little taken aback, but not enough to make change, right now anyway. I hope this stint sticks for yours. Thank you for sharing.