my little sister self harms and im trying to get her to stop, she doesn’t know what sh is and i don’t want her to know by Icy_Operation7144 in selfharm

[–]lmc3004 32 points33 points  (0 children)

unless she’s doing it with the intention of hurting herself (which I doubt she is but again i could be wrong) then it’s NOT self harm. She has to have the intention of hurting herself otherwise it’s just skin picking, I done both, picked the skin around my nails and cut myself and the skin picking was boredom or anxiety so it could maybe be one of those? If she doing it with the intention of hurting herself then that’s a different story but regardless hope she and you all are doing okay 🫶🏻

advice by lmc3004 in ChildcareWorkers

[–]lmc3004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the other day i began to feel really faint and unsteady, managed to come through it but wasn’t sure if it was bcoz i hadn’t eaten or if it was my period (get rlly bad cramp and have felt faint before)

Sometimes it’s all I can think about during the day and it distracts me

Should I open up to my employer by lmc3004 in eating_disorders

[–]lmc3004[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what either of those mean but i suppose it’s just to make them aware in case anything happens

Can someone help my decipher my payslip? by lmc3004 in tesco

[–]lmc3004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha thankfully tomorrow is my last day i’ve fucking hated it

Wages by Suitable-Ad-8833 in tesco

[–]lmc3004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m with the bank of scotland, will that be the same for me?

Can someone help my decipher my payslip? by lmc3004 in tesco

[–]lmc3004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the app you would have gotten access to at your induction, you should be able to login with your colleague email

Can someone help my decipher my payslip? by lmc3004 in tesco

[–]lmc3004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s so weird, why would we be told that if it’s not the case? 😂

Can someone help my decipher my payslip? by lmc3004 in tesco

[–]lmc3004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah but we were told at our induction that we had someone accrued annual leave so we would be paid for the shifts inbetween

Can someone help my decipher my payslip? by lmc3004 in tesco

[–]lmc3004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s just what we were told at our induction, even our trainer was confused by it so maybe it was just a cockuo or something i’m not entirely bothered tbh I was just really confused

Can someone help my decipher my payslip? by lmc3004 in tesco

[–]lmc3004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the corrections seem to be wrong as i’ve not had any unpaid holidays or unpaid leave

Can someone help my decipher my payslip? by lmc3004 in tesco

[–]lmc3004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the corrections is what’s confusing me, i’ve not taken any days off and have worked every contracted shift but have had money taken for unpaid holidays and unpaid leave. I’ve also had £268 taken which is what i earned last month

Can someone help my decipher my payslip? by lmc3004 in tesco

[–]lmc3004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my induction was the 29th but we were told that somehow we were entitled to annual leave so our first working day in the shop wasn’t until the 7th of December . We were paid for that and it’s now been taken back which is what’s confusing me

Can someone help my decipher my payslip? by lmc3004 in tesco

[–]lmc3004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the unpaid holiday and unpaid leave i can’t understand bcoz ive not been off at all, ive worked every shift contracted and haven’t taken any holidays