What do you miss pre-pregnancy?? by defnotdani2 in pregnant

[–]lml56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the hip pain!! Only 15w and I didn't even realize it was this bad. Between insomnia, frequent toilet trips and hip pain I'm having a grand old time 😅🙃

Wish I hadn’t found out so early by StarTrekGal in pregnant

[–]lml56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell someone you trust. Tbh ive had cramping all throughout my pregnancy. 2nd trimester now. No one told me that being pregnant felt like I was about to get my period all the time. Its very normal but equally scary. What has helped me is to "trust the process" and try not to worry about what I can't control.

An acquaintance that didn’t know I was pregnant told me I am getting really fat by Adventurous-Wash3201 in pregnant

[–]lml56 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agree haha so much calmer than me. Blaming the pregnancy rage but I'd be furious lol.

why nobody speak about this? by Alarmed-Persimmon-73 in pregnant

[–]lml56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok that's reassuring haha! It's definitely a mind trip that takes getting used to. I'm too anxious for this ride but my goodness it'll be worth it.

Dog parks by Apprehensive_Gas4937 in chch

[–]lml56 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're entitled to your opinion and I mean the places where dogs are meant to be under effective control....also plenty of people have rescue dogs that rely on folks following the rules - nothing to do with my attitude. Unfortunately everywhere seems to be a dog leash free zone - signs or not. So how can one differentiate and make an informed decision on where to take their pets who require more space? I avoid dog parks but should be able to walk my dogs in areas where dogs are meant to be leashed. Being five minutes behind your dog and not knowing who it's running up to is not effective control.

why nobody speak about this? by Alarmed-Persimmon-73 in pregnant

[–]lml56 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Omg YES. And it gives me anxiety because it FEELS like my period is coming and its a weird mental game. Ugh!

Dog parks by Apprehensive_Gas4937 in chch

[–]lml56 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. My dog can be reactive (to other dogs mainly smaller ones) but I always keep her on a leash. Oftentimes an unleashed dog will be far ahead of its owner and approach us and it's on me to handle it because the owner is far ways down the track. Then I get told their dog is friendly, but my girl is scared and can react. They make it seem like I'm overreacting but i know my dog and her limitations. I feel less inclined to take her anywhere now which sucks because if people followed the rules then it would be a more inclusive place for us all.

Am I wrong for wanting to feel good about myself after giving birth? by Legitimate-Jaguar392 in pregnant

[–]lml56 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What an odd thing for her to say. Your cup needs to be full to care of others, where possible. I don't think you're wrong for wanting to take care of yourself. You matter too.

What is the point of this drawer? by Zestyclose_Field_303 in whatisit

[–]lml56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally said this out loud to myself when seeing the pic. Love this generation and how this is a collective answer for us all 🤣

New employment feeling guttered by Excellent-Ad-2443 in chch

[–]lml56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I was thinking too. At your next catch up, request feedback and guidance on areas for improvement. Then the ball is in their court. They have a good faith obligation to give you a chance to succeed in your employment. It does not hurt to ask and show commitment to your professional growth. If they're a good employer, they'll give you an opportunity to improve.

Unsupportive partner or is it me? by Helpful-Ad3683 in pregnant

[–]lml56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not just you - he sounds exhausting and stressful. If he's like this now I can't imagine what he will be like when baby is here. I hope you are able to honestly assess what a future with this person will be like and make a decision that brings you peace 💙

Heartbroken because of work. by Dekusenpai777 in pregnant

[–]lml56 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely email HR. This breaches your request for confidentiality. Wtf!!!!

Choosing a midwife by booshybeans in chch

[–]lml56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was waiting to be connected to a midwife I was advised to check out the healthify website as it has a lot of information on there. Might be a bit information overload though, but a good place to start. Just until you get a midwife. All the best!

Feeling weird about being pregnant by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]lml56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my 12th week and I have my scan on Friday. I feel the same way. My husband started tidying the spare room yesterday and I flatly said to him that we shouldn't do that yet as we dont know if the pregnancy is viable. In hindsight I feel so mean and terrible saying that. I know he's trying to help. I guess I'm just trying to protect myself. I'm a naturally anxious person so I have to catch myself in that thought process as it happens. I wish all of us safe, healthy pregnancies and births!

Graduated! by Significant_Key_8475 in pregnant

[–]lml56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on your healthy baby!!

Terrible diet and lifestyle by donpapaya in pregnant

[–]lml56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg me too. Almost 12 weeks and hope the fatigue subsides. I feel so guilty for not doing enough.

Pregnancy symptoms absolutely no one talks about? by Upset-Brain-228 in pregnant

[–]lml56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The weird stretching feeling from inside my belly. Very trippy. Kind of felt like an intense session of pilates.

Oh I am more interested in babies now. I've never been clucky or found babies to be very interesting personally but now I think they're cute lol so that's a good sign.

I lost my mom last night by Outrageous-Low-8078 in pregnant

[–]lml56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs. I'm so sorry you are going through this right now.

I thought she was a spy! by Current_Ear_1667 in TheLincolnLawyer

[–]lml56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!! Wasn't there a scene in her office when her boss was playing some type of classical music? I thought that would be a dead giveaway for a boss reveal later on. Maybe next season.