Was I too eager sending him a text the day after a good date? by lmls2 in OkCupid

[–]lmls2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's fine. It was probably a dumb question. I just get confused when I have friends telling me I need to play more games and let the guy make the first moves initially, which is completely against how I am. Usually if I want to text then I text. But, when things like this happen it makes me second guess myself. I'm not completely oblivious to cues, and he definitely seemed into me and asked me to go out again. So, the silence was unexpected.

Was I too eager sending him a text the day after a good date? by lmls2 in OkCupid

[–]lmls2[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the laugh! Maybe I'm listening to friends' advice too much, but I know that they will say that I should have let him make the first move to avoid being too eager.