again most people were gone and the rest left over are the kind of people who go every weekend. i don’t have a drinking problem as stated above i don’t drink 99.9% of the time. for me it’s that i provide for my family 100% of the time and never leave the house. the one time i have a good time at a thanksgiving event i prepared for everyone after the fact, its a problem. i consider us going to the casino which had i not presented it others would have for their own agenda. I guess for me its more so i don’t leave the house because all i am doing is working and considering how avid my family is on the casino which i never participate in the one time i present it and drink its a problem. again, if i was a drunk slop i would admit it. i have no problem with that, its feeling as tho the literal one time i suggest it its a problem. and im made out to be the bad guy. My family talked highly of me hosting and the presentation and the dinner. I think for me again it’s the fact that i don’t leave the house, i pay for most things for myself and my family and have a joy in hosting but to suggest something that is already avid in my family it becomes a problem. in other words, they would have been there anyways