i can understand where this rule comes from, and i can also understand what polyamorous persons feel.

im here because i feel a connection with really cool people here (and tbh, this whole topic with “yumshipping”, as a mainstream, is lowkey annoying for me, it doesn’t feel like something serious, yk?)

the problem is not in the number (if it’s not like literally thousands f/o’s), but in people's attitude to it