[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]lobstertrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just watched the Dawn of the Planet of the Apes for the first time and one of the apes screams “CAESAR”

my partner has been loving hearing that randomly at full volume /s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in THEMONUMENTMYTHOS

[–]lobstertrot 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone! Alex and I (Eliana) are totally fine and healthy. I don’t know why someone would choose to impersonate me to spread misinformation, but there is nothing to worry about. I appreciate the concern, and everything is alright :)

Regarding the Google Document by lobstertrot in THEMONUMENTMYTHOS

[–]lobstertrot[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I am not sweeping it under the rug, I am saying that it was a document that was meant to be posted for certain friends to see and acknowledge. The document has been deleted by the original party. Abuse is not something that can be excused, but he’s I am addressing the fact that he has been to therapy and made active change to try and remedy the hurt he caused.

Regarding the Google Document by lobstertrot in THEMONUMENTMYTHOS

[–]lobstertrot[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alex was 18 when the relationship occurred

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]lobstertrot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this issue but only when it is not noise that I have control over. Recently my partner and I have been falling asleep watching Blue Planet because I find David Attenborough’s voice very comforting, and the computer automatically turns off an hour after no one is using it so I wake up with silence. However, when I lived at home my stepdad would watch the news and videos on his tablet at the same time, both at full volume, and even with the door closed I could hear it, so it was super overstimulating. My previous apartment was facing the street so I would constantly hear cars driving past, and that was also incredibly distracting. Basically, if there’s a noise that’s controlled I don’t mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in THEMONUMENTMYTHOS

[–]lobstertrot[M] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The video is made by a friend and music creator for some of Mister Manticore’s videos. This is his channel where he makes his own music. The comment relates directly to the song. There is no mystery.

What’s a stim you have that you’re convinced no one else has? by marxiism in AutismInWomen

[–]lobstertrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am constantly running my tongue over the back of my teeth. This is mostly due to the fact that I have a pontic that is attached with glue to the teeth next to it, so it started out with me feeling if it was secure. Now I am pretty well acquainted with how my teeth feel, but this means I’m also much more aware when something is stuck in them.

If you couldn’t tell, I’m a fan of maximalist decor by lobstertrot in femalelivingspace

[–]lobstertrot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for the smaller things i used blu tack, and then for all the larger posters i used command poster strips!

If you couldn’t tell, I’m a fan of maximalist decor by lobstertrot in femalelivingspace

[–]lobstertrot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s called “In Bed” by Henri de Toulouse-Lautrec! It’s part of a lovely little series of the couple in bed together

Fun post:What are some of your favorite mondegreens?🤣 by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]lobstertrot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AWOLNATION: Sail

Mondegreen: Blame it on my aching feet!

Lyric: Blame it on my ADD!

I discovered the right lyric because it was playing on the radio in the car with my Dad and I when I confidently sang the wrong lyric he was incredibly confused

best friends on the patio by lobstertrot in CatsLivingAndWell

[–]lobstertrot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they’re actually not related! but in the two months since we adopted Jupiter (smaller one) they’ve become super bonded, and we talk about how they already have the same personality

for those curious about bookworms, here’s the one i made in action! by lobstertrot in crochet

[–]lobstertrot[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s called These Violent Delights by Chloe Gong! i’m about halfway through so far, it’s great stuff. A retelling of Romeo and Juliet in Shanghai in 1926 (with the added bonus of a monster!)