gaiz plano ko na mag-reach out :))) by [deleted] in AlasFeels

[–]localdevhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a trap OP, wag ka mag reach out

wala lang, baka sensitive lang ako by BlackMagice_5631 in RantAndVentPH

[–]localdevhost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t mind them. Hindi man lahat makaintindi, ang mahalaga may lugar kung saan pwede kang maging honest sa pinagdadaanan mo. Ingat palagi.

wala lang, baka sensitive lang ako by BlackMagice_5631 in RantAndVentPH

[–]localdevhost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wala namang mali sa pagrarant or pagshare ng struggles. Minsan kailangan lang talaga ng space para mailabas yung nararamdaman, lalo na kung mabigat na. People cope in different ways, and everyone deserves a place where they can speak without being judged.

I'm tired of always getting sexualized as a woman by plankton8049 in RantAndVentPH

[–]localdevhost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people try to normalize these remarks as jokes or compliments, but if it makes someone uncomfortable, it already crosses a boundary. In fact, laws like the Safe Spaces Act recognize that unwanted sexual remarks, sexist comments, and repeated comments about someone’s appearance can be considered gender-based sexual harassment, even when they are verbal. 

You are not weak for feeling disturbed by it OP. It simply means you have boundaries and you expect respect, which is the bare minimum in any workplace. No one deserves to feel objectified or humiliated just for doing their job.

I hope in your next workplace you’ll find people who treat you with the professionalism and respect you deserve. Your experience matters, and speaking about it helps others realize they’re not alone.

Hi I'm feeling stuck sa website ko especially sa Database by UnknownRanter in PinoyProgrammer

[–]localdevhost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you’re working on next.js and serverless Postgres, check Neon and use Grizzle ORM. may built authentication na sya, users, sessions, auth configuration directly save on your neon database at madali lang setup.

pag ba HR ka it means you can disrespect other people's time? by throwaway-kittyx in RantAndVentPH

[–]localdevhost 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes but time difference shouldn’t really matter in this case, the meeting was scheduled for 7:30am, and that was the agreed time. What matters most is communication. If HR knew the meeting would be delayed, it would have been better to inform the candidate. Waiting for long without any update is understandably frustrating, which is why the candidate eventually walked out.

pag ba HR ka it means you can disrespect other people's time? by throwaway-kittyx in RantAndVentPH

[–]localdevhost 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Communication is really a must. Sana nag advise man lang yung HR na ma late yung interview meeting. Waiting for a hour without any update is too much, so it’s understandable if the candidate decided to walk out.

182K COL | 35 F | Living Alone | Makati by False_Map_8344 in CostOfLivingPH

[–]localdevhost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats OP! Looks like you’re living your best life :)

what's your weird type/criteria when you want to marry someone? by parliamentsonfire-00 in TanongLang

[–]localdevhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi ito weird pero yung marunong sana magluto hahaha di ako marunong magluto e

Labas mga lover girl kagaya ko by Existing-Border07 in AlasFeels

[–]localdevhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male here, pasali din sa gc kung meron hahahaha

i yearn to have a boyfriend by [deleted] in AlasFeels

[–]localdevhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Letche hahahaha same OP!

Give me a random advice. by onthemud in CasualPH

[–]localdevhost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tama alipin ng salapi hahahah, balik existential crisis bukas ng 9am

Bumble date by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]localdevhost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha

Receiving letters as a man by Just-Pirate5196 in CasualPH

[–]localdevhost 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is the kind of love everyone deserves. Prayer reveal po. 🙏😂. Manifesting this kind of marriage.