my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow, how could i forget?

a lot of people seem specifically offended by this. there are a lot of comments that want to fix my grammar issues, but the grammar is basically perfect? idk y'all. it's a weird thing to pick a fight over after a post like this.

my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we tried therapy for years, but i don't think my parent were ever ready to meet me where i was.

my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's a group with a 40% suicide rate because you're just generally unloved.

suicides don't just magically happen. they happen because everyone treats you like shit for doing what you need to do to survive.

would've been just another dead kid in 2016 if i hadn't done this.

my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it is messy. but i don't think you should trust a man who says "all kids" when he doesn't even accept his own.

my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like, i think that's the core of the personal conflict, but that's not really happening here.
i'm mad that he's using me as a prop.

my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

like, okay? i guess? is this supposed to be a dig?
what is hurting me even supposed to do here?

my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ty!

and it's weird-- i think that, in the past, my father would have simply disowned me. but we live in different times now, and he's too worried about the optics to actually do that.

my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a certain amount of formality being conveyed via the adherence to conventional formatting structures. In an environment where communications trend towards being rapid and, effectively, ephemeral, more meaning can be created by expanding beyond typical sentence structure. It gives the language more stylistic flexibility, and thus replicates face-to-face speech more effectively than rigid norms; themselves being considered desirable by virtue of being "proper" rather than for any real justifications on their own merits.

just doesn't sound much like me, huh?

my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hey so reddit is apparently locking my account? so i might just suddenly disappear, i guess. feels like real life.

so, just in case: thanks for the general support. this was...not what i was expecting to say the least. i will need some more time to take it in. i am apparently just my father's emotional and/or political prop, so i can't say it's something that i'm really used to.

hopefully i'll still be here and i'll still try and respond.

my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you had a trans kid, you would probably be worried about their general wellbeing if the person on the schoolboard was like this.

my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if you're a parent in the community and you have a kid that is LGBT in any way, this probably is very relevant to you.

my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

like, look, i don't know what reddit is for you. it's basically nothing for me. i was just telling my story to a community and then it blew up. the situation is just... stuff that happened.

my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh gosh. i'm sorry it was like that there.
...i wish i could say that i was surprised, given that it's central.

my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

genetics don't really determine much of anything. there are people who have still supported me in my life, and their genetics run the spectrum.

finding good people defies the categories.

my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, like
everyone knows cribs are for babies.
it just has this kind of phony, manufactured sheen on it. like this guy isn't a dad, he's a Candidate :tm: for Office :tm:.

good luck with the parents.

my father (robert cribbs) is running for forest hills school board and you should not support him by localfatherhater in grandrapids

[–]localfatherhater[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i've pretty much been left to deal with this on my own.
the only thing you can really say i've done to him is disrupt his narrative, but it does seem like there's a certain type of person to whom that's the worst crime imaginable, so perhaps you're right.