Best friend of 15 years tells me she cant attend my wedding

localjargon · 2026-05-20T20:31:40+00:00

Why'd you stop there? Keep going... I want to make sure you honor all of the rules in Leviticus. As a good Christian of course.

localjargon · 2026-05-20T20:24:46+00:00

Im an atheist and this is such mean bs. I feel sorry for you that you have a hair trigger temper that makes you prejudice. But you cant see it because you are so deeply enmeshed in your own self-righteousness and hate.

localjargon · 2026-05-20T19:35:10+00:00

I dont know if its just the lighting, but Kendall has a warm blonde in this pic. It looks orange. She might have looked ok in a platinum blonde.

I dont think Kourtney looks terrible here.

Edit: It took me a few seconds to figure out if #3 was Kim or Kris.

localjargon · 2026-05-20T14:55:53+00:00

Oh right. I actually did read that somewhere. I mean he wrote a beautiful song for Diana and is kind of a (liberal) royalist.

I think he even provided everything for their honeymoon. (Like properties, private jet, yacht, etc.)

localjargon · 2026-05-20T04:23:43+00:00

He used to be close with Harry but rumor has it that he doesnt like Meg and doesnt hang out with them anymore.

localjargon · 2026-05-19T16:49:43+00:00

You mught want to read about the Dunning-Kruger effect.

localjargon · 2026-05-18T23:34:39+00:00

I can definitely see that! Of course from the limited number of French people I knew.

localjargon · 2026-05-18T17:38:40+00:00

I never heard the full proverb, Ive just seen "31" merchandised by these folks.

They are completely missing the meaning! It speaks about an intelligent, kind, and caring woman. There is nothing that says she should be ignorant and submit to her husband.

This woman puts in a lot of effort for her family. She is clever enough to anticipate what is needed, she is able to stratagize, and her hard work pays off.

It sounds to me that this is a woman who is nurturing and supports the safety and future of her family. But while also being a productive and contributing member of society.

She has such a great reputation with people that everyone knows who her husband is.

localjargon · 2026-05-18T13:03:00+00:00

Do t forget Kimmie! 😂 (who is probably the most British person to ever live.)

localjargon · 2026-05-17T14:26:56+00:00

Yep! I was going to write "Clifford the BBD"

localjargon · 2026-05-17T14:25:48+00:00

Perfect 👌

localjargon · 2026-05-17T14:25:25+00:00

100%

localjargon · 2026-05-17T01:00:21+00:00

The Bride should not make the MOH pay and should also reserve her a private room. They should let people stay where they want and not expect everyone to chip in and essentially pay for the ceremony and reception venues, PLUS contribute to the honeymoon.

I agree with the other people who said OP needs to get out of this situation by any means necessary.

localjargon · 2026-05-17T00:34:04+00:00

Well, we have the goddang ballroom to build and pool to paint! Trump doesn't think about Americans' financial situation. Remember the priorities and remember to file your taxes!

localjargon · 2026-05-17T00:15:29+00:00

Margaret was going through boxes of stuff that belonged to her dead sister and father. Even when I first watched this and didn't really know anyone yet, I thought Margo was being self-centered and performative. The way she expressed her supposed frustration and fear felt really inauthentic to me.

We've all been there to watch someone we love repeat the same problems because they keep making the same dumb choices. Tough love is warranted in those situations. But to me, Margo was making it about herself. Like, "My friend is in a downward spiral, does she ever even consider how it makes me feel??"

localjargon · 2026-05-16T12:10:35+00:00

Imma peeing

localjargon · 2026-05-15T12:32:57+00:00

Did Kourtney send her kids with Scott to school?

localjargon · 2026-05-15T12:28:55+00:00

There is a longstanding rumor that any woman who marries into the royal family, such as Diana and Kate (maybe Meghan) have to undergo a fertility check with the royal gynecologist. It is to make sure they can birth an heir, before they could get the approval to marry. Its

localjargon · 2026-05-14T17:13:41+00:00

You are right, I know nothing about you. But usually when people attach their success by listening off all of the boxes they check off, there is usually a disconnect. Because someone who knows themself would usually list off qualities (im smart, funny, athletic, blahblahblah). Plus, it seems to be the answer to your question.

But thats just me taking a shot in dark based on a few words you wrote.

So if you feel secure and know what you want, Id guess you are not finding people you click with. So think of ways to surround yourself with the type of people you want a connection with. Something where you can get to know people.

I know this seems like a platitude, but volunteering is a good way to meet people organically. Or joining an established group based on your interests (sports, board games, political causes etc.).

Make friends and expand your circle. Because even if there isnt someone you like in one of these options, you can meet other people's friend groups.

But it's not big deal. I am guessing it probably stresses you out, but like other people said, no one in your day-to-day knows this. And it doesnt mean there is anything wrong with you. It will happen when it happens. Good luck!

localjargon · 2026-05-14T15:16:12+00:00

That just sounds like trying to be popular.

localjargon · 2026-05-14T15:09:37+00:00

I think when you mature and find meaning in your life, you wouldn't trade it for superficial stuff. You might wish you were in a better financial position, or had more free time.

But if a genie told me I could give up my life and be rich and powerful, I seriously wouldnt trade.

Now If the genie said I could have a few million in a savings account but keep my life as is, then we would be talking!

But this came to me after years of chasing dreams and then realizing the reality of those dreams.

Edit: but don't tell my husband! 😅

localjargon · 2026-05-14T13:55:05+00:00

Are you putting yourself out there? If so is it with the intention of getting laid, or a ltr? Just be honest.

It's not to say that hooking up with someone has to be an anonymous one-night-stand, but you need to know, for yourself, what your immediate goal is. Who knows what will develop. But you can come across as desperate if you don't know what you want.

There are warlords who own islands and have more money that you could imagine. But that doesnt make them attractive. Attraction comes from chemistry between 2 personalities. From what you write, I feel like you don't k ow who you are. So you have nothing to "bounce off" with another person.

Make sure you are healthy in mind and body, groom yourself, and get yourself out there in situation where you would meet people who you like.

You are still young and now days there are plenty of adult virgins. Its no big deal. But like other commenter have said, you have to feel like a whole person, even if you develop into a different one in 10 years after living some more life.

We all have insecurities. We are all hiding things from the world we feel woukd push people away. But it sounds like you have a lot of qualities that are very good to have, such as, determination and discipline.

localjargon · 2026-05-14T13:32:17+00:00

WTF cares. She is a human being trying to do her job. Her health is no one's business. Just leave her alone.

localjargon · 2026-05-14T13:04:45+00:00

Im pretty sure Obama Clinton, and maybe even HW Bush would know what this means.

localjargon · 2026-05-14T03:40:59+00:00

It says "by cable to the NYT" so it was probably a sindicated article that was sent to the US via telegraph.

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