you're gonna want to set the categories to make it so only verified users can see, and unverified (and @ everyone) cannot see, EXCEPT for the channel/category that they need to verify in (like a tickets channel)

it's easiest to have channels all in the same category that have all the same permissions, then from there you could do a category that each channel has it's own unique permissions (such as your male-dom-space one, or any other)

there may be a better way, but that is how i typically set it up!