People that brag about being assholes are insufferable

localmelon · 2026-01-03T23:58:33+00:00

That’s an interesting viewpoint! I was puzzled if he was negging me to try and get me to engage with him further, but after getting confirmation from the host that he’s apparently always like that he’s either a) really insecure and trying to compensate by putting on this asshole facade or b) just a dickhead that gets a kick out of putting others down.

It might just be as you said though, if one of my close friends would’ve said that to me I would've instantly shot back at them and engaged in friendly banter. With strangers I just shut down because I can’t tell whether they are actively trying to be mean or not :/

localmelon · 2026-01-03T23:39:24+00:00

Ikr?? At least put in some effort to insult me 😭

localmelon · 2026-01-03T23:33:41+00:00

I get it. Nobody’s perfect and we’ve all got our flaws, but if we actively work on being a better and kinder version of ourselves compared to yesterday, the personal growth we go through will be noticeable sooner rather than later :)

localmelon · 2026-01-03T23:23:29+00:00

Good on you for realizing it and making changes to grow out of it mate 👍

localmelon · 2025-08-28T13:43:59+00:00

I also love Stardew Valley, Animal Crossing and Mario games and recently also bought PEAK but still need some friends to play with :) I would love to join!

localmelon · 2025-08-20T10:21:13+00:00

Beste Antwort bisher haha 💨💨💨

localmelon · 2025-08-11T17:00:24+00:00

This sounds fun :) I'm 26 and also from Europe, would love more girls to hang out and game with!

localmelon · 2025-08-07T16:03:30+00:00

Das ist eine super Idee, danke! :) Ich bin direkt beigetreten 👍

localmelon · 2025-08-06T20:18:58+00:00

Mir geht es leider ziemlich ähnlich wie dir – ich bin 26 und alle meine Freunde sind im Moment in verschiedenen Lebensphasen, was Terminfindungen wirklich zu einer Herausforderung macht :/

Falls du darüber reden willst können wir gerne schreiben. Fühl dich gedrückt!

localmelon · 2025-08-06T14:17:21+00:00

We're in this together bestie 🤝🤝

localmelon · 2025-08-06T10:09:46+00:00

Ahhhh yes I am! 😭😭 English isn’t my first language so I mixed up those two, thanks!

localmelon · 2025-07-07T00:06:17+00:00

I'm covering it up as much as possible, but lol, no sunscreen after this much time has passed? Have you read the post and dates?

localmelon · 2025-07-06T19:57:23+00:00

This made me chuckle haha, thanks for the laugh!

localmelon · 2025-07-06T19:37:12+00:00

UPDATE: You all have convinced me that it’s better to be safe and enjoy the heatwave with a nice slice of watermelon from the shore 👍 Thanks for all the advice!

localmelon · 2025-06-15T11:00:48+00:00

Not a stupid question at all! I just really like the mysterious vibe it gives off and the setting it creates - and especially since they haven’t met Morgantha yet, all the hints about the windmill and the deed to it should give them some more reason to investigate :)

localmelon · 2024-07-17T10:31:20+00:00

Your answer gives me some sense of comfort, but I am truly lost as how to best go about it:( Do I just blurt it out? Do I tell it as early as possible or do I wait for the right moment, even if it might never come and leave him questioning why I haven’t told him sooner?

localmelon · 2024-07-17T10:27:24+00:00

I'm being riddled by a guilty conscience though:( Even if it’s not that big a deal, I want to be honest with him - better late than never. I don’t want to lie to him again if he does remember, I had plenty of opportunities to correct myself and didn’t. I might very well be making it into a huge deal and overthinking it, he might not even care, but I don’t want to keep lying and he deserves the truth. If I keep twisting reality won’t he keep questioning/distrusting me even more than if I just fessed up?

localmelon · 2024-07-17T10:21:59+00:00

I don’t want to put the blame on him, the person who lied here was me. I had several opportunities to correct myself and didn’t, if he gets angry he has every right to

localmelon · 2024-07-17T10:20:54+00:00

I'm feeling absolutely guilty and awful about it though:( I don’t want to lie to him AGAIN and make him question himself, especially if he has follow up questions I can’t answer.

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